how am i going to tell my bf that i dont love him anymore?

Question

hes been so kind to me and he treats me like a princess but im so guuilty coz i dont love him..and what if he will hurt himself if i will leave him?

Answer 1

Just be honest about it and tell him. Be gentle, but honest. If your going to break up with him though, be a good person and do it in person. Phone or internet break up's are way more harsh than in person.

Answer 2

tell him thank you for all he has done to show you a love that you do not feel worthy of...tell him you feel guilty because you know he loves you way more than you love him and that you want to free him to find a girl more worthy of that love, one who can love him the way he deserves to be loved.

THEN take a look at yourself and try to figure out why you are sabatoging a seemily great relationship! there are not a lot of good men left out there...you will be lucky to find another like this guy!

Answer 3

He seems sweet. How can you not love someone like that? There aren't many guys like that. Well, you've got to be honest with him. It's going to crush his heart but you can't stay with him if you no longer love him. Say it in the nicest possible way and make sure it's in person. Tell him you don't love him anymore, you're sorry, you don't want to hurt him. Tell him he's a good person but not the one for you.

Answer 4

Well, the longer you wait, the more you are hurting him, but you're going to have to hurt him. Try to get him to understand that sometimes love isn't eternal, but it isn't the end of the world. Tell him that there's someone out there that's meant to be with him andit just isn't you. If you can get him to understand on how you breaking up with him isn't the end of the world, then he probably won't hurt himself as much as he would if you keep waiting.

Answer 5

You need to be honest. Tell him that he is a wonderful person, and how lucky you are to have been with him, but your feelings have changed. Tell him that not letting him know is as bad as lying, and that you want him to find someone to love him as much as he loves them.
It won't be easy. He probably won't hurt himself, and that is no reason to stay with him. He will be heartbroken, but he will in time move on.
Good luck, it's a tough one. Hope I could help.

Answer 6

Find a time where it's just you and him. Bring it up slowly &stay strong. (: Let him know that even though you don't love him anymore, you still care about him and want to be friends. Hopefully he'll realize that hurting himself won't solve anything. Good luck!

Answer 7

sometimes we have to be cruel to be kind and you must tell him as soon he may wonder if something is up if you start acting differently around him.
Cause he is gonna be hurt but tell him that you are sorry and dont like hurting him and hope to remain friends, time is a great healer and he will get over it

Answer 8

I'm pretty sure you never loved him in the first place. Why don't you just tell him that you'd rather be friends and see where the relationship goes after that?

Answer 9

been throught it but you can't keep it from him, you have to tell him how great the times where and how he'll make someone else happy but you jusy don't feel the way you use to about him.

He wont understan at first cause it'll be a shocker but after a while he'll get it

Answer 10

Just let him know that he should treat the next girl like dirt and she'll love him forever... He may not "feel" like acting the part, but hey, she ALWAYS falls for the bad guy... It's their nature... They can't help it... This world sucks...!