we been together for 2 years i have a daughter by another man who is a dead beat father, my boyfriend now accepts my daughter i love this man and he loves me and i would like to have more children before i'm thirty i'm 26 how do i go about bringing this issue up to my boyfriend is it to soon?
2006-12-06 13:31:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start with marriage, then children, if the two of you aren't ready for a full commitment, then you are not ready to be parents together. Remember the play ground song "First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes so&so, with a baby carriage.
2006-12-06 13:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy might not be really serious in the long run. Do you want to have another dead beat father and another lonely child? He hasn't even told you that he wants to marry you and if you are not the type of person who marries then I feel that before you have another baby he should express his feelings in a very meaningful way. if he does then I think talking to him about a baby will be any easy thing to do.
2006-12-06 21:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by lot2talkabt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think about getting married, maybe having your boyfriend adopt your daughter, and then think about having another baby. Good luck!
2006-12-06 21:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its deffinetly not to soon, i mean if YOUR ready. you should approach the situation not as a personal thing, but as something you two will work towards together. bring up it up to him,and make sure you really tell him how important it is to you. good luck!
2006-12-06 21:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just what we need is more kids without legal fathers. If this one leaves are you going to keep having kids. Use your brain.
2006-12-06 21:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you bring up marriage first? if you can't marry him then what makes you think you can have kids with him?
2006-12-06 21:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by R-Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it
2006-12-06 21:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋