help me Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

I need help I have three friends who all seem to be like really having problems with me this week its kinda of hard to believe two are straight and on e is a Lebian and she slept in my bed ounce and I got scarred and i like held on to her like all night and now she likes me and thinks I like her I don't know we started just passing notes but she always seems to whatch me take my cloths off for changing to swim I mean its not like there is much to look at cause I have hardly developed any thing but I have a hard time turning away from her what do I do?

it wouldn't let me put this question any were else

Answer 1

Sisterly love is great. Like when two little children hug. It is pure. It is ok. When adults or friends share contact like this, it is love.

But when lust comes into it, it is wrong.

Your friend needs to know that she is making a mistake. She has no right to see you that way.

Now, don't be afraid. I know it is hard when you are young. But dont be scared. No problem is bigger than God. His opinion is the only one that matters.

So pray. message me if you need to.

And know that you have a right to privacy and she is invading your rights. DOnt change infront of her anymore. Go into a bathroom stall or somthing. Her love is not real sisterly love if she sees you this way. Dont feel pressured or scared. Stand up for yourself.

And try to be as loving as possible while at the same time doing what needs to be done.

And pray to God for guidence. Trust in him.

message me if you need to.


Ray

Answer 2

If this person is a real friend she should know your feelings already. But if she is reading more into the situation that you shared, she will understand when you tell her you aren't interested in pursuing anything more than a friendship. You need to let her know if something she is doing is making you uncomfortable. It can be hard to talk about this with others but your feelings are as important as anyone else in the situation. Being that the system made you put this question in this area maybe it could be as simple as praying for guidance.

Answer 3

Whether ur a lesbian/bi or whatever, u sound way too young to b involved in a love/intimate relationship. I think u r confusing liking her as a friend n liking her romantically. Tell her u consider the two of u just friends. Wait until u can sort out ur feelings.

Answer 4

It seems like you are awfully young (as are your friends?) to be sure about the lesbian thing.

You seem unsure about things. If I were you, don't undress in front of anyone (male or female) if you feel uncomfortable with that. Being curious about sexuality is natural and normal. But it's important to move slowly when exploring these issues.

I'm not entirely sure what your question is - but if someone is making you feel uncomfortable, just tell them in a very nice way that makes you feel uncomfortable. That you like them and want to keep their friendship - would they please respect your comfort zone a little more.

Answer 5

Isn't there a bathroom you could change in? If she really does have feelings for you and starts to be a problem, you have every right to tell her flat out that it's not that way with you.

Answer 6

Change clothes in a bathroom stall where you can have some privacy, and tell her clearly you're straight!

Answer 7

Find a church and talk to the pastor or youth leader. Pray to God.

Answer 8

let her know that youre normal and not interested esp if these notes are out of line...dont give in to her at all Be strong..

Answer 9

Tell her you are straight.

Btw, that is the longest "sentence" I have ever read.

Answer 10

Indeed. Throw a period or a comma in there every once in a while.