Help please- What should I do?

Question

My boyfriend has two jobs, school, and a little girl. I work with him in one of the job, only 2 days. I am also going to school too. The only time we spend time together is when we are working together or after work and it is usually late. I want to see him more than just two days. We call each other, but sometime we would be caught up in our own things and talk every other day. I really want to be with him more.
What should I do?? Please don't tell me to break up with him because that's not that I intend to do. He really cares for me and I do the same. I don't want to keep telling him that i wanted to be with him because I will feel like I am nagging him. He has a lot going on already and I don't want to nag on him at all. I just want to be a good girlfriend to him and at the same time I don't want to feel like I'm left out or lonely sometime. Please help me. Thanks.

He is a single dad, but doesn't have full custody of the child. He and his baby mom share time spending with the kid separately.

Answer 1

Be patient, understanding and supportive.

It'll be the best time he'll have ever in such a hectic moment.

Answer 2

Is he a single dad? Meaning has full custody of his daughter?

Ok, it really sounds like this guy has a lot going on in his life. But lets think of it differently. I am a single mom of 2 boys. I work full time and raise two boys. I still have time for dating. I still make time for it because I want to spend time with my boyfriend. When I read your question it makes me feel like he likes you but your not that important to become more important. I really do feel strongly that if someone is really into you and cares for you, he/she will make time to be with you, more than just 2 days. Now sometimes that is all he/she can give but come on, we all have more time to give if we REALLY want to. I think you just need to talk with him just tell him that you really value the time you two get to spend and you understand that he doesn't have that much time to give. But you really would love to spend more "quality" time together. Just have a heart to heart conversation with him. If he doesn't seem to care after your conversation it might be time to look else where unfortuantly.

Good Luck!