all of my friends have boy friends... really hot one.... but i dont ive gotten asked but i cant find the rite guy am i too picky or something im feel lonely i need a boy to make me happy
2006-12-06 13:25:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just trust urself and i am sure all guys dream to talk to u
but u have o wait till u find the right guy who loves u for what u r not for ur body and then leave u
2006-12-06 13:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you've "gotten asked". Do you just look at the guy and say "no"?
Is that because you want a "hot" boyfriend, or is that because you're secretly scared to say "yes", so you make sure you find something wrong with the guy every time?
If it's because you want a "hot" boyfriend, then you need to stop being so shallow. You should choose your boyfriend based on how much you like his personality and how well you get on together. Youcan't possibly know that until you've gone out with him at least once. If you base your decision on looks, then I can guarantee you will never have a relationship that lasts!
If it's because you're afraid you'll make the wrong choice, then you need to give yourself a good talking to. If you turn every boy down, then you'll never get a bf. Give a boy the benefit of the doubt, give him a chance, and you may find he's not as bad as you think.
2006-12-06 21:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i only found this out a little while ago actually. i realized that i dont need a guy to make me happy. all i need is my friends, family, and me! i always thought that a guy would make me feel complete, and i realized that a guy cant. the one can! until you find that right guy, you will still feel like a loser. i was the only one out of my group of girls not to have a bf. i was so crazy about having one, that i would had probably said yes to anyone. you arent a loser, lots of girls go through this. you might not see it on the outside, but the inside is different. we all want to be loved and to love someone. my guy friend tells me that i am too picky, but i just think that the right guy hasnt come along yet. you will only finally feel happy when you realize that you dont need a guy to make you happy. i have never felt better about my life since i figured that out. i might joke around with my friends about us all being single, but i just havent found the right guy yet. best of luck to you!
2006-12-06 21:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by JennyJen91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to tell you right now before i say any thing else. You NEVER and infuses on the NEVER need a guy to make you happy sure it may seem like it but you don't all they do is cause drama and problems but really all you need it a good ggirl friend you can lean on to be there for you when you feel lonely and don't trip when god is ready for you to have a man he will send you the rite one.
2006-12-06 21:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by msbrok3nh3art3d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww dont feel bad I'm the same way! I am actually VERY picky and I just cant get over this one guy that makes me really happy even though he's not ready for gf and I've rejected alot of guys for him and I'll always be waiting for him until the right time! ⥠Don't worry your time will come! I promise! If you want email me at VBabe360@yahoo.com and we can talk.
2006-12-06 21:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, never go out with a guy u dont like. Trust me, I did that once and when he found out, he was really sad/mad. He found out on the phone, and he liked me so much, he started punching a wall. I didn't know I broke his heart that badly, and afterwards i felt really bad.
2nd of all, you can never be too picky. There is somebody out there for anybody. Ive seen some pretty weird people get into a relationship, so you will find one. If love was something that happened fast, it wouldnt be something worth waiting for.
2006-12-06 21:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jillian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be picky but if you are looking for a hot boy on your arm you may find someone who may not treat you right. You are being asked out so you are not a looser. A nice person who treats you well is better than one who treats you bad. Don't let your friends put down anyone you go out with because he may not be their type but, if you have fun with him he is your type. Be happy with yourself 1st,and the right person will find you.
2006-12-06 21:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by larlonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's nothing wrong with having standards for a guy. Just be careful that you're not being overly critical. And, you don't need a guy to make you happy. You need to be happy with and by yourself before you can have a happy relationship.
I don't think you're a loser, you're just searching. Good things come to those who wait . . . . and, A watched pot never boils! :)
Good luck!
2006-12-06 21:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Sera B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look... u dont need a boy to make you happy!!!! find something else you like to do!!! my sister and i play soccer, and we're in ROTC, that always keeps our minds off dating. but no youre not a loser, y would u be a loser if u havent found the right guy? i'm sure ur still young enough to find him!!!
2006-12-06 21:30:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sea Otter!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you do not need a boy to make you happy. Second, you are not a loser. Your just someone who knows what they want and wont settle for anything less.
2006-12-06 21:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by Bison0809 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋