I tend to stammer and everything I say comes out weird..especially around guys
2006-12-06 13:24:52 · 18 answers · asked by sarahq74 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself, if they do not like you for who you are then they are not worth talking to. Know that you are special and important.
2006-12-06 13:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to create a change. Let me explain, I was very shy, kept to myself, especially around women. I hated it. To get over my shyness I made a change and went for a job as a male stripper. Though I didn't take the job, it helped. I don't suggest you go to such an extreme, but do something you normally wouldn't do.
2006-12-06 13:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by Pink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear. by Ambrose Redmoon.
If you just keep meeting new people and guys etc you will eventually get there. I used to be like you and it has taken a while (years) to work on it but each time you make a decision to do be confident you'll increase your confidence. It's so true that you have to fake it till you make it. If you pretend your confident people will treat you that way and then you'll start to feel and be that way all the time
2006-12-06 13:30:22 · answer #3 · answered by kittyandcj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be confident in yourself...you might even need to change a certain aspect in yourself in order to feel more comfortable in your own skin. Also when you are alone at home you can kinda rehearse what you want to say but I'm not saying that you should write a script and memorize but just think before you speak. Also you can get more involved in activities to get to know people and really get over your shyness.
2006-12-06 13:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by GIO847 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not alone there are guys out there who behaves like an idiot around girls, esp. those they like or hot ones, just be youself, keep up with current affairs, fashion, happenings around your community so that when the time comes, you won't be clueless as to what they are talking about, you can start off by talking to just one person, & see if you still stammers
2006-12-06 13:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by Dreamweaver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i should be in the guness book on shyness so what i try sometimes is to like talk to people like this
try everyday when you go out to talk to a stranger just say hi or ask what time it is, then after you do this till your comfortable try talking more to strangers like having a conversation about the weather and youll get out of it
2006-12-06 13:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me the guys dont mind girls who stammer it makes them attractive .In time you will overcome your shyness
2006-12-06 13:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and think about what you are going to say. stammering is from nervousness, picture the person you are talking to naked, and it may help you relax. in time you will get over it, like everyone else. alot of people are like this.
2006-12-06 13:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by happyday to you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really shy then you will never get over it. Im the same way and im a grown adult. Its a terrible way to live,,,,its called social anxiety disorder....look it up and see if you have all of the symptoms. If you do you can get help for it.
2006-12-06 13:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exercise. Makes you look good too- ever notice that guys like cheerleaders? well that's why. Run 3 times a week.
2006-12-06 13:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋