I am wanting to let her know i have been with him since our divorce so should i ? She should know he has cheated on her right? He left me for her .
2006-12-06 13:23:12 · 10 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just hate her guts but i don't want him back .......sorry it was for revenge .MY BAD!
2006-12-06 13:41:15 · update #1
yes call and dont get into a fight jsut say look i thought u had the right to know that ur husband has been withme. im srry i was imature i jsut thought u should know.
then answer any ques. she has. just make her feel as good as u possibly can make her feel she will scream!
2006-12-06 13:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What . . . do you want him back or something? What would you be accomplishing by letting his WIFE know that you were with your EX-HUSBAND after the divorce.
That is something that some would say is to be somewhat expected from a divorce couple sometimes but it obviously didn't mean anything.
He may have just been caught at a weak moment or maybe he was putting closer to you and his relationship or he could have been doing some comparing and he decided to go on and stick with his current wife.
You need to move on with your life and stay out of theirs. You telling her, might make them closer and backfire because you are hoping that your lttle bit of news will cause her to kick him to the curb.
She is not going to leave him because of what you have to say and if he denies it, then you are really setting yourself up to look desperate.
NO, you should not tell her, just get another man and move on with your life. There is someone else out there for you but you need to take out some "ME" time and chill out before getting involved with another man too soon.
Lose some of your baggage, it would not be fair to the next one.
2006-12-06 21:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by geminisista 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So........you want to get him for leaving you, or her so she'll dump him, too? Or, maybe you just want him back (can't imagine why, though). Or, do you like to see people suffer? If I had more time I'm sure I could think of more ways to be mean, but I'm sure you've thought of many more.
Did you really expect people to encourage you to act out your jealousy???? Well---maybe they will if they want revenge, too. Why don't you just find someone else...six years is a long time. So you've been with him...desperation leads to many missteps. THE END.
2006-12-06 21:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by TexasStar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he left you for her, then why would you disrespect yourself so badly as to stick around for sloppy seconds? Six years...WOW! Get out of there and let him find someone else to cheat with. You only want to tell her so that you can feel better about him leaving you for her. Get over and move on...you know you really don't care if she gets hurt or not...stop lying to yourself and get some self respect.
2006-12-06 21:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by AnswerWhore 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to stir up trouble?? Just let him go and let it be. You are a grown woman and you let him sleep with you after you knew he was with someone else. So it doesnt look to good on your part to begin with, You slept with a man who LEFT YOU for another woman!!! If anything you look like the stupid one. Im sorry but its true,,so think about it like that.
2006-12-06 21:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have been apart for so long, why would you want to do this? It sounds mean, and you should be way over any feelings you used to have for him. Drop it or maybe a call to a therapist would be the right call....
2006-12-06 21:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely &..... 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should wish them bliss and go on with your life, find your own happiness, stop holding onto old ghosts.
2006-12-06 21:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by lot2talkabt 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your just bored toosie pop
2006-12-06 21:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by Mudd 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
that would be pretty dirty no. got heart?
2006-12-06 21:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
sloppy seconds....you're gross
2006-12-06 21:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by L♥G 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋