lately we have been getting into lil fights....and last fireday she broke up with me.....but the next day....she told me she relly does love me and still wanted to be with me....so we got back together....where still getting into all theas lil fights...n i just dont know what to think about it....does any one out there have any advice???
2006-12-06 13:19:31 · 14 answers · asked by Kyle P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's how me and my bf were. I got mad at him alot because he was annoying and immature and we'd break up over really dumb things. Yeah it didn't go well.... We're broken up now and not talking... So I guess that's not alot of help but here's some things that are not good to do..
- if you have a problem with her or want to know what's wrong, DON'T GO TO HER FRIENDS!! Yeah it's tempting, so you can know what's going on but just go straight to her. If she doesn't tell you don't be annoying and keep asking her. Maybe ask her a couple hours later because she might've changed her mind about telling you.....
- Don't cheat on her (um duh)
I really don't know! I don't know what the fights are about but if you want to e-mail me or IM me I'm sure I can provide a little more advice.
2006-12-06 13:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting into fights, breaking up, and getting back together, then repeating it over and over again isn't a good relationship. Maybe it's time to let her go. You might be better off as friends. But, if you're not ready to do that, try making up. Try to resolve the fights. Do something nice for her. It can big huge, or something small, like a box of chocolates or some flowers. It's still the thought that counts. It might stop, and you and her may be happy together. Or, it may not die down. If it doesn't, then you know that you have to let go of her.
2006-12-06 13:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's unsure about being in a full time relationship right now. She might be afraid or nervous about making a commitment before she's sure your someone she really wants to be with. Ask her about it, and offer to give her some space to figure herself out, maybe even date around a bit.
2006-12-06 13:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by Tray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a goofd fight is good for a realtoinship, but too munch is telling you that u are setting off her anry piont. and guys have different oppoins, how ever u spell that. try listining to her or give the fight up, even if u r right. see a love conciler
2006-12-06 13:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking and discussing how to work things out. Compromise and loose a bit for the sake of understanding each other.
2006-12-06 13:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey kyle...well this is kind of normal...i had the same problems with my gf but after a while you will find peace...right now i have been with my gf for 1 yr and i love her more than anything..so especially when the relationship is new it is usually like that...but watch out if she keeps on breaking up with you...that might be a warning sign for trouble...
ok i hope this helps
2006-12-06 13:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by michael p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sryy. but i think shes not right 4 u if u keep getting into fights very often. more than 1 a week. than ur not right 4 eachother.
2006-12-06 13:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there someone else you dont know about.see they, picks a fight just to get away to be with this other person i could be wrong but check into it to be sure watch the pattern she use to start a arguement.good luck
2006-12-06 13:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two need to really get into the point about why you are fighting alot and come up with ways to lesson the fighting.
2006-12-06 13:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by daisy322_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is between 18 and 22? they fall in and out of love every 5 mins.
2006-12-06 13:22:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋