Ok...I just told my best friend that I like him. He doesn't believe me!! How do I make him believe me! And also, how do i get him to like me, cuz im not sure if he does? Your help is greatly appreciated, thanks!
2006-12-06 13:12:45 · 17 answers · asked by Angel_luva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well...he acts like he likes me but im still not sure cuz i havent had a boy friend before so............its not like i have to make him notice me or anything cause were best friends!
2006-12-06 13:21:25 · update #1
suck his face baby!
2006-12-06 13:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit him down, look him in the eyes, take his hands and tell him firmly that your feelings for him are not a joke. Speak from the heart. Don't laugh, stutter, or avoid his gaze. These signs will only make him believe otherwise. Speak with him somewhere away from your friends and others. And if he doesn't believe you still, keep telling him until he finally does.
2006-12-06 21:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't believe that you like him then there is only one way to get him to believe you....prove it. Be really kind to him and ask him on dates. You can be a little on the flirty side but not so much where it is almost disgusting. The most important thing about getting a guy to like is to just be yourself. You can't make a guy like you, just be you and you'll find out if he likes you for you are.
2006-12-06 21:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that your serious.....And if you have to try and make him like you by acting differently then hes not worth the effort. I don't know about you but I wouldn't like acting around my bf every second that I'm with him. I want someone who likes me because of who I aready am.
2006-12-06 21:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by Marsha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like him. Tell him it's not a joke, and you're being honest. And if he still doesn't believe you, there's not much you can do. And you can't make him like you. Don't bother trying to impress him, either. If he likes you, it should be for the way you are. Not for someone you pretend to be. And of he doesn't like you, there's not much you can do for that either. You were meant to be friends.
2006-12-06 21:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
look tell him seriously and just keep staring, give him a note that says it. Show him ur not kidding. u cant make him like u, he has to like u. srry love cant b one sided no matter how much all of us want it to b.
2006-12-06 21:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you told him and if he doesnt believe you its his loss dont keep brining it up saying I DO LIKE YOU and making a big deal about it maybe hes trying to pretend he didnt hear you say that cause he doesnt like you like that and doesnt want your friendship to become awkward. and secondly dont get him to like you cause then he wont really like you and your relationship will be a flop! he needs to like you from his own heart with his own mind not being forced into by you or your friends(trust me i speak from experience 2 weeks into it i find out he o nly asked me out cause he felt soo forced to now our friendhsips sorta awkward). and if he doesnt like you that doesnt mean he never will get to be better and better friends and he will prob grow and like you more and more then eventually like you. just dont force it uponn him. guys hate pressure. hope this helps, good luck!
2006-12-06 21:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Amers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you are serious he will eventually belive you! just try really hard! tell him that you want to be his gf not just friends sooner or later he will get the pic.
2006-12-06 21:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jordo! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't make someone like you. It just happens. If he's not believing, then do things for him, that is, tell him that you're ready to do things(good) to prove your likeness(only if you want to do). Cheers!!!!!!
2006-12-06 21:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this will sound corny but use the line "we need to talk" then sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel...if he still doesnt belive you then look him straight in the eye and say "why would i lie to you? your my bestfriend!" then ask him how he feels aka if he likes you back...if he doesnt tell him that its okay and that you wish this didnt damage you alls friendship...and if he does then ask him out!!! if he still doesnt like you find out what his ideal girl is and become her......he may like what he sees!!
2006-12-06 21:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how does he not believe you.. is he like: "you must be joking"? please give details.. and how does he (a boy) not like you (a girl).. guys usually like every girl.. unless they have a gf.. this is tooo cool email me with the specifics and stuff.. if you want.. dr.kian@hotmail.com
bye
2006-12-06 21:20:45 · answer #11 · answered by bob o 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋