I like him but I realized I'm not attracted to him. We've only been together for about 2 months. Is is bad that I don't find him attractive?? He's cute and all though....
2006-12-06 12:59:10 · 23 answers · asked by Nay Nay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not going to say its "bad". You said that you don't find him attractive. Do you mean looks-wise or personality wise? If you don't find him attractive as in looks, its ok if you like his personality. Love isn't all about looks. If you don't like his personality either, then maybe its time you think about the relationship. There is no point in dating someone that you aren't attracted to by looks or personality. Hope i helped.
2006-12-06 13:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dani 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you've been with your boyfriend for 2 months and you're not attracted 2 him, then you really probably don't want him. You might have liked him in the beginning, because he was cute, but nothing really impressed you after that. You might be staying with him now, because you're waiting for an attraction or to say that you have him. You might as well tell him that you only have a friend relationship with him.
2006-12-06 13:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find a guy that you are attracted to. Thats the point of having a bf.
2006-12-06 13:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by DLJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I cannot kiss someone i do not find attractive. Its not fair that he finds you attractive and you don't. You could be attracted to the way he dresses, his smell, or his facial features or body. if you are not attracted to any of these things then why are you with him???
2006-12-06 13:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
off course it's bad . if u like him but not attracted 2 him it goes 2 show u only take him causally so don't use b/f . it does not really means anything ?
2006-12-06 13:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be cute but it is something that attracted you to him. Whether it is the jokes he tells, his personality, the way he laughs/walks/talks, or the way he combs his hair, it was a reason that he was lead to you,
2006-12-06 13:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by paigeamj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, it's pretty not o.k. - you should look for and hook up with someone you are attracted to... It makes everything much better. Besides, you'll be shopping anyway; it's just natural.
2006-12-06 13:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you have feelings for him, what does it matter? If it was really about looks... then how come really ugly people get married? (sure they are usually married to other really ugly people... but just because someone is really ugly doesnt mean they find other really ugly people attractive... know what I mean?)
2006-12-06 13:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem!!! im gonna break up with him......but only because i like someone else too.....i mean do you like some1 else....ok is this how u feel - like, you like him but if your friends said "who would you rather go out with..ur boyfriend or another hot guy - who would you pick???? im soooo bad - i picked the other guy......and i wanna break up with my boyfriend but he's like in LOVE with me ;-( do what u think iz right (i would say BREAK up)
2006-12-06 13:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Sk8erlvrprep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your call baby.
I see a lot of beautiful women in the arms of really ugly men.
at least you may not have to worry about other women trying to steal him away from you.
2006-12-06 13:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋