ok heres the thing me and my ex we ended in a really bad way and now my new girlfriend and my ex r getting closer and theyre talking alot more and i know that my ex talks alot behind my back saying bad things... and when i try to talk to my girlfriend about it she seems to defend my ex.. i dont know wat to do plus i find that my girlfriend always puts her friends before me not that i want her to stop talking with her friends for me but i wish i was just more important for her... like if her friend needs something and at the same time i need somehting shell go right away to her friend she wont even think of me and i know that like friends r forever and bf they come they go but i dont know it bothers me alot...
2006-12-06 12:52:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweating, you need to chill! listen, i understand that you feel like your girl is neglecting u, but it sounds like sh i s not that into you as you are into her... now i consider friends my family, and i do put my friends above my BF, but my Bf is really important to me to. You need to talk to her Hun, but no matter what u do do not blame her!no pointing fingers!!!!!!!! You must really care about her....she needs to know that....I hope i helped..0_0?
2006-12-06 12:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by KeLs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her exactly how you feel. Just be honest. Don't blame her for doing anything wrong but explain to her that you feel that she sometimes puts her friends before you and that hurts your feelings. Also explain that is makes you nervous that she's so close with your ex-girlfriend because although you realize some bad things may have happened in your relationship it's in the past and your new girlfriend is the future and you'd like to start fresh, make a clean start, and not be judged by what anyone else might be saying about you. Friends may come first but she should also have room in her life for you too if she wants you as her boyfriend.
2006-12-06 13:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by copper_eos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the current girlfriend. If she lets your old girlfriend talk bad on you she isn't worth having around. Your significant other should be supportive and there for you, not stab you in the back when you are not around.
As for putting her friends first, it really depends on what she is putting her friends first on. What did you need for her, and what did her friend need her for, What was actually more important? If its all the time, its really time to find yourself a girl who wants to actually be with you.
Good luck to you..
2006-12-06 12:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by Issym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had that exact same difficulty with my husband. No biggy I eat with a fork very virtually continuously. as an social gathering: mac and cheese and soups continuously. Its so i am going to get what ever i go with and by no skill some thing else. Im controlling in my eating. only take care of it haha. in case you care about her you receives over it.
2016-11-30 05:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by lesniewski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow dude... I have to say she's doing the right thing, (no offense) but the "girl's" will always be there for you when the jerk dumps you & breaks your heart, so we should always treat them like gold, sometimes putting them above our man if there's a crisis.
(I know that won't make best answer because it's not what your injured ego wants to hear, but it's the truth)
2006-12-06 13:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by Ree 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
grow up!! get a gf from out of town & do not let her meet any of your friends or else you're back to square 1
2006-12-06 12:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by Dreamweaver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men need calm dude. we need our Ladies to be loyal. your girl is not , you have to settle on what you can live with.
2006-12-06 12:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋