This is not some kind of stupid joke that some idiotic teenage jerk is asking. This is a real dilema that I would like to know the reasoning and logic behind.
durnig play i am on the stage crew so we move walls and do other stage crewish stuff. One of my friends says that he over heard a girl saying that "the guy in the green hat is really hot." another says "you mean army pants, ya i know."
also one of my frinds whois a girl told me that all the girls thought i was hot.
i want to know what is going on. i do not try to come off as hot or even somone who is looking for someone. i have no intrest right now. so can somone please tell me why this happens to me.
any help would be appriciated thanks very much.
2006-12-06 12:51:41 · 14 answers · asked by xyan_void 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, thanks for clearing up that you aren't a jerk bc I hate it when boys go I've got so many girls who think I'm hot.....it's annoying. Well, you probably wear what you like and army pants maybe are intriguing to these girls. The silent type always attract more attention than the normal guy who just kind of sits around chats, and in general blends into the usual social scene. Just be yourself, but try to let them know subtely that you arne't into any of them, besides they'll probably think someone new is hot a week from now. Best of luck=)
2006-12-06 12:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by infusionismusic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey being hot isn't a bad thing. Just take it as a compliment but try not to let it go to your head. I'd say most "hot" actors probably don't think they are much to look at either but then People magazine votes them one of the 50 Most Beautiful People. You must just have something about you that women universally find attractive. Much like Tom Cruise has that million dollar smile, Mel Gibson has those baby blue eyes, Matt Damon is just an all around cutie. The same can be said for a lot of women Angelina Jolie, Jennifer Aniston, Jessica Alba... they all have something that most guys find attractive and there's no arguing about it whether they are looking for a mate or not. It's okay to have the ladies swoon over you even if you aren't on the prowl at the mometn. Just know that when you are looking for a partner that you have an unfair advantage against other men but I'd suggest also planning on having a good personality to back up those good looks. Hey we can't all be born beautiful but some of us just are. It's both a blessing and a curse... just go with it. You'll be fine. ;)
2006-12-06 13:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by copper_eos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all be flattered.If u are in a relationship or just want to be alone for a while don't be bothered just take it in stride. For some odd reason women just get a vibe from men who are in your position and take it as a challenge.Research has shown that men who show that they are committed to someone else or wear a wedding ring to a bar or club get more offers from woman than men who are single.Strange but true.Some woman want what they can't have!
2006-12-06 13:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by kat daddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...you can't tell us that you aren't just a little flattered?! Come on man, give us a break here!! Anyways, maybe its just the way you present yourself, there is absolutely no way to change whether someone thinks you are hot, unless you are a complete jerk. But uh..don't burn your bridges just cause you are not interested right now, one day you will be readyand interested and you don't want all of the girls to hate you, Right?
2006-12-06 12:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, properly once you have an interest interior the lady, the finest factor to do is refer to her and probably attempt to locate something in subject-unfastened. perhaps you like an identical style of song, comparable video clips, you recognize stuff like that. And when you do communicate approximately that and to play it comfortable perhaps ask them in the event that they like to return over sometime and hear song, or watch a action picture with you. And circulate on from there. basically undemanding talking, making jokes, and be your self. and you recognize keep the kissing till they get on your place and do exactly what feels precise you recognize. properly i wish this helps. stable luck ;-)
2016-12-11 03:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just accept it. many unattractive guys would love to be in you place. girls dig your style and your vibe. its the fact that your not coming on to them, that turns them on (which is a good thing). if you were a cocky, jerk less girls would like you. girls think your hot and sexy. Your very attractive so enjoy it. you won't look like that forever!!!!
2006-12-06 13:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes being "hot" had nothing to do with your actions. Its all in your looks. If you have that "Brad Pitt Syndrome". ie. hot when in a pile of dog ****, then thank your parents. You'll love it when you get to college..
2006-12-06 12:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by paigeamj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need help to NOT be hot? can't help you there, buddy! those of us who are attractive can be considered cursed or blessed. obviously you feel like you were cursed with good looks. nothing really you can do, accept it and move on
2006-12-06 13:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the compliments and the attention dummy.
2006-12-06 12:55:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh stop your whining. You love it.
If they aren't attacking you with lust, what do you care? Take it as a compliment and move on.
2006-12-06 12:54:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋