I became friends with this girl and Im the kinda person that jokes around with every girl, you know just to keep things flowing..so it ended up that she started liking me but I didn't have the same feelings for her..soon we just got physical and u know everybody has their needs so I didnt object..but every time i see her i get this feeling that she wants more than just a open, physical relationship, but we've already discussed the fact that that wont happen because itll be one way love..she keeps coming back to me..and I feel bad for taking advantage of her for my/our physical pleasures..I just want to have a platonic relationship just so that nobody is hurt..is that the way to go? or what else can I do?
2006-12-06 12:32:15 · 8 answers · asked by WC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm on the other end of this relationship. I told him I can't see him because I know I would end up having sex. So we are trying to be friends over the phone. It may be along time before I can see him as friends again if ever. If I do see him it will be with other friends. I don't think you can "unring that bell"
2006-12-06 12:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by who who 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really messed this up
but real bad
check out if you like her without sxx, too
if yes, I don't know... buy her flowers or something..... no clue
you guys kind a jumped a couple of levels up in a relationship and left he basement out
anyway... if you want platonic..... well, just don't sleep with her any more, simple like that. and see where it goes.
good luck
2006-12-06 12:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by warm candlelight and tea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that being friends would be better just for now. Since the two of you are still on the process of trying to know each other.
2006-12-06 12:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by mared 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and break it off completely with her!If you respect as a person,let it go.
2006-12-06 12:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop it.
She wont enjoy the news but you ahve to stop.
I'm good friends with a guy like that who liked me but than stopped and now i like him.
He flirts and everything but if he was leading me on i really would be hurt.
2006-12-06 12:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by dreamscrushed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm woman..girls take things serious,,,but i think your just playing her....you already know this..be fair find another girl to play with who wants it...
2006-12-06 12:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by heartzz_ablaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just a dick head! stop leading the girl on.
2006-12-06 12:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by tweezy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go out with her.........
2006-12-06 12:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋