i love my BF too much as he keeps telling he loves me too, but his ex-GF still sending him a love letter and emailing him and try to make a way and my BF keep telling me it is over she just push , and she is pushy and i cant control her, u shud trust me, can r really trust him or not , plzzzzzzz help me
2006-12-06 12:25:10 · 9 answers · asked by bb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not gonna be with this guy forever, so don't worry too much about it. There are plenty of great guys out there and you're young. Enjoy it. But if you want to stay with this guy, tell him that you understand that you need to trust him when it comes to his ex-girlfriend, and that you're trying your best, but that he should understand your worries about it and be more considerate of you and your relationship. The truth is that if he knows how much this bothers you and he cares about that, and he's scared he's gonna lose you, he'll cut his ex-girlfriend off. You can't nag him to do it. He has to do it himself.
Start developing contact with other guys. That's your best defense. You'll have fun and know that there are other guys out there, and he'll get a little taste of his own medicine. Let him get a little jealous knowing that you have other guys in your life e-mailing and calling you too, even if they're just friends (don't cheat on him though). He can feel insecure in the relationship for once. Or just leave him and find a boyfriend who puts you number one.
2006-12-06 15:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Purple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, you have to trust him. Although I know how hard it will be when he breaks that trust that you give him but it's part of loving someone. You need to be ready for the consequences that will come your way.
2006-12-06 12:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by Confused Loner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girly if you really love him and he really loves you then you wont have a problem and like totally stay with him and like it will all work out and stuff but yeha as in that girl just kick her A$$ lol jk jk dont do that but i would tell her that he n him didnt work out and he is yours now so she needs to back off unless he is single i would say that well hope that helps stay together unless you split over somthing else but if its true love then make it last
2006-12-06 12:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by tropical_sweety2587 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, do not trust him... if he did not want to lead her and you on he would not have e-mails and love letters. He enjoys being the center of attention and the one he really loves is just himself. Don't be stupid and use your time wisely like learn how to spell.
2006-12-06 12:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by lot2talkabt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should trust him if u truly love him as much as u say u do and tell his ex to like freaking back off because he chose you over her and it's gonna stay that way
2006-12-06 12:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah=hoplessly in love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first re-read your questions to make sure they make sense.. cause i felt like i was reading a question from someone with mental problems and that could be one thing that turns him off from you.. but anywho! tell him to tell her to stop writing because he's not gonna read them anymore he's just going to delete them or throw the letters out.. if he can't do that, then you should dump his a$$.. i'm sure your still young and all so dont' get all attached to him because more then likely you will not marry him.. so yeah have fun and try dating around.. i wouldn't put up with that sh*t for a second.. if he didn't respect me then he can hit the curb like the little b*tch he is...good luck and best wishes!
2006-12-06 12:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would trust him, if he says he loves you he must really mean it and cares about you alot. And don't worry about that other girl, he is with YOU not her.
2006-12-06 12:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Heyo44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is trust, or you might annoy him and he will ditch you too.
2006-12-06 12:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by mld122979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just laugh at her. You have him, she doesn't.
2006-12-06 12:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋