My girlfriend is going out of town to go to college for 4 years. And that college is known for having alot of parties. We've been together for 2 years now and i dont want to stop her from becoming whatever she wants to become. Thier are also other colleges in town that she can go to to pursue her dreams. Why cant she stay in town with me if she is commited??????...plezz help
2006-12-06 12:14:34 · 4 answers · asked by trey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If what you have is real, the parties won't matter. You can visit one another on weekends and holidays. Ask her how she feels about your relationship and see if she wants to stay together. If you have a good relationship, you have to learn to trust.
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2006-12-06 12:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by jazzcrazy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is time for her to go out in the real world and find herself. You didn't say how far the college is, but if it is more then a 1/2 hour it is not going to work out. One of the worst things you can do to someone is hold them back. Let her pursue her dreams and you go pursue yours.
2006-12-06 20:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by lakecity21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like you dont want her to go because of the parties and because she can meet someone else, but if she wants to go, let her go to that college. Her carreer, her college. deal with it. Besides, nothing bad can happen by going.
2006-12-06 20:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she feels she needs a change of scenery
2006-12-06 20:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by 321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋