I recently broke it off with a guy because I though he was cheating... ( along with a few other reasons). He was always a constant liar, about even the smallest things, but he went off to OK to go to school, and that kinda made me nervouse since we were already having some problems.... then when i tried to call him, he was always on the phone with someone else until way late into the night ( like 3am ) he told me it was with his mother... but when he was here he and his mom only talked like once or twice a month. It didnt make sense to me... plus when i finally got ahold of him he was lways rushing me off the phone... did i do the right thing by breaking up with him..... and yes i still have feelings for him... unfortunatelly...
2006-12-06 12:13:45 · 4 answers · asked by asking4faith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He most likely was cheating, but even if he wasn't, why would you want to be with a liar? Would you really want to spend the rest of your life chasing after him, worrying, and wondering what he was really up to? That wouldn't be fair for you at all.
If he didn't respect you enough to be 100% honest, then he didn't deserve you.
It's completely normal for you to still have feelings for someone. If you love someone, you can't just turn your feelings off. They have to gradually dissipate, and even then, they never completely "go away."
Even though it may not seem like it now, you will be ok. You will find someone else, someday, and you will look back on this and be so thankful that you got rid of this guy when you did.
Good luck in life, stay strong. :-)
2006-12-06 12:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am about 99% sure that he was cheating. The time away from you gave him plenty of opportunities and since the two of you were already having problems, he probably didn't feel too bad about it. It just doesn't add up. Who spends HOURS on the phone with their mom, especially when they aren't even close? I say that if he wasn't cheating, then he was definately thinking about it and you were right to leave him before you got your heart broken. I feel your pain about you still liking him, be strong. Don't give him a second chance because once a cheater, always a cheater. You deserve better than that and I know you can find someone who truly appreciates you. Goodluck!
2006-12-06 12:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw this movie where this guy asked a lady for a pair of lingerie for his mom (that's what he told the lady) but the friend told the lady that a guy never buys his mom a pair of lingerie, when they say that it means he's buying a lingerie for another women. I think he won't be on the phone til 3AM with his mom, I think it's another lady he's probably falling for. I guess you made the right decision of breaking up with him.
2006-12-06 12:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by Confused Loner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have not been cheating...but he was sure acting weird.
2006-12-06 12:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋