He said eventhough i give him advice and help him out with quetions he is still confused.
right now he asked me to come on line to get more advice from ppl on yahoo answers.
ok this is what is on his mind. he is cerious about life and he is starting to think about girls he thinks that every time he thinks a thought about something that has to do with having crushes or privet parts he ends up feeling guilty. he feels really guilty for the thoughts that cross his mind, what else can i posably do to help my son so he dosn't think he is a bad boy for being cirious he feels nasty and guitly.
i told him it's all part of growning up. We need some advise from someone that hashad a cerious 10 year old too.please excuse my spelling.
thank you soo much!
2006-12-06 12:03:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
what i'm trying to figure out is how old your son is if you're only 25 yourself and how he could be old enough to be at this stage of his life yet??
2006-12-06 12:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kid of your age is without a doubt experiencing new and wonderful things. Nothing to be guilty about here. Not at all. This is natures way of making sure that there are always people. You see a chick you like, things happen. It's natural. Just don't get so uncomfortable with it that it gets you in trouble. And by this, I mean pregnancy. That stuff that's going on inside your head is powerful. And probably mis-leading. You'll figure it out. Give it time, and get the timing right.
2006-12-06 20:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your body is gearing up for the day that you will have sex. It is like a pair of new shoes. It takes time to figure out what is comfortable and what is not. Girls have the same thoughts and feelings but respect your self enough to educate yourself about sex and puberty. webMD is a great site that has lots of good HONEST info. You will be fine! Guys have it hard because they cant hide the things that comes up like a girl can but you will be fine. EVERYONE goes through it. Mom, Don't be hard on him. Mom has always had the answers and he is getting to the age that he can read and research things that he may not be comfortable about talking about but he still loves you!
2006-12-06 21:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by T. W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally normal for him to think about those things and to feel guilty about it. He will certainly grow out of it, but it helped my little brother to learn more about girls. My mom bought him some books (nothing mentally scarring to a young boy) just so he could be more informed and less curious.
2006-12-06 20:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by lisa42088 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a part of growing up, as long as the thoughts aren't of hurting someone else then there is nothing wrong with it. It represents the mind of a healthy male preteen/teenager.
2006-12-06 20:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by vanillabeancheesecake37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u r telling him is right. Please get it endorsed from a doc in whom he has faith. It will work better. It wud be better that he takes some light exercises including brisk walks regularly and at times when he is tense.
2006-12-06 20:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its his first step to man hood, be the great dad your being and just stay by his side, take him to do "man things" good luck!
2006-12-06 20:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by ocfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
it's natural for a guy his age
2006-12-06 20:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by jemba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've beeen thru alot. i can help dogmicjoe@yahoo.com
2006-12-06 20:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋