There is this guy that is 34 years old, married, with a 2 year old kid. His wife moved to another state, or so he says she did, (not too sure if that is the truth). He can't leave his state b/c of probation I am guessing (again, not too sure if that is the truth). He has lied over and over to me about "Loving Me" and wanting to be with me. He has not done anything to make that happen and it has been close to 2 years now. He lies over and over....doesn't have a real job and his mom pays all of his bills for him. At first, I felt sorry for him, but now, I think he is just playing anyone he can and getting all he can from everyone. I am hoping someone else has been in a similar situation and can tell me what thier outcome was from this situation. FYI....I have not spoke to this guy in over 3 months and I don't ever plan to speak to him again. What is wrong with him???
2006-12-06 11:53:17 · 21 answers · asked by 8675309 jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I waz acually....u see he wants to have someone at his side, not in anotha state...an he figured u would lyk him if he told u da truth about his poor life, so he wanted to seem rich and fabulous
2006-12-06 11:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with HIM...it's you who has the problem, You seem to enjoy being used. For two years you hung on to a non-existent relationship knowing none of what he said was the truth. He was more than willing to take you up on your offer to be used. Some men are like that. If you allow them to use you they most certainly will.
2006-12-06 19:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, what is your problem? Why are you wasting your time and good looks on this loser. Girlfriend, move on. You didn't have to ask this question because you already had the answer. I'll pass some advice to you that someone told me. Don't ever waste time on anyone that can't give you what you want. Love ya.
2006-12-06 20:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by Vivian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only guess. He must have a substance problem like pot or booze.
Also, he may just be suffering from a serious case of chronic loser syndrome.
2006-12-06 19:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to make the first move and after he gets you, for anything wrong, he will blame to you.
2006-12-06 19:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by dragon_2877 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has serious mental issues... if he has been to jail, and dosen't even have enough responsibility to pay his own bills, he needs to go to a therapist and work out his sh*t.
have sympathy for the guy, he's suffering on the inside
2006-12-06 19:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a predator, call the cops in his state and give them the info, you may not be the only one hes after.
2006-12-06 19:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow person! Move on, what do you need these problems for? You are worth more, and leave looser ( like me ) behind!
Move on!
2006-12-06 19:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not talking to him and if you are not planning to talk to him ever again why do you care what is wrong with him? he is a loser that is whats up with him. let some loser woman deal with his ***.
2006-12-06 19:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
another 30's bonehead who can't make up his mind to grow up or stay a lil boy
2006-12-06 19:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋