Ok, so we broke up and I am trying to just let her be. She has a new guy around that she swears is a friend... Not sure if I believe her or not. But I got a new phone and number... well she is sideways about it. She thinks that I should just keep the same number so that way she can call me and see how I am doing and such. Not to mention she has said that she does not know if it is over between us, and does not want or love to die. But yet and still she kick it with the new guy from work. Now he is only 17 and she is 21... and always dates older guys. But still I dont like it, and she knows it. So what do I do... believe that there is nothing going on and continue talking to her on the phone and such.... Or is she getting freaky with a minor at his parents house and just wants me to be around until she gets bored with him?
2006-12-06 11:50:26 · 5 answers · asked by lost_93710 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she could just sister/friend to boy. she probably wants to help him and lead him in the right direction. its not always a sexual thing. but then again if you don't like it then she should respect your feelings and not hang around him so much. tell her that he may start having feelings for her. secondly, you guys need to define your relationship. it looks like she's just hanging on to you for some reason but doesn't want to let you go. how do you feel about her???? if you don't want to be in a relationship with her than don't give her your number. remove yourself from the situation.
2006-12-06 11:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what state she lives in she might NOT be "getting reakiy with a minor because in some states the age of consent is 17, some states it's 16 some states it's 14. If you choose not to beleive her you choose not to beleive her. That's it no major decisions here.
2006-12-06 11:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over her she sure doesn't deserve you she just wants you on the sideline so if anything happens with the minor then she can always come back to you......
2006-12-06 11:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by ginger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get the new phone and be done with her if it was meant to be then you guys will end up together one way or another,whats that saying if i let her go and she comes back the it was meant to be if she doesn;t then it wasn't true love.something like that.
2006-12-06 11:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if it's really over. I assume if you changed your number, it was so she wouldn't call you. Just move on.
2006-12-06 11:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋