Ok tell me what you think. A guy goes away for training for six weeks. Phone bill comes in. Girlfriend in which he leaves with text messaged a male she works with over 1 thousand times. Called about 50. Boyfriend is pissed, girlfriend swears nothing happened.What do you guys think? What would you do?
2006-12-06 11:46:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The amounts I am assuming are a little overstated. As far as the text messaging I wouldnt say thats a huge deal. I myself go through tons of them via spam, jokes, funny pictures and bordom. That includes my co-workers male and female.
However large amounts of calls to male co workers while bf are way is another story. If she was open about it and the 2 call each other a lot anyway; I would voice my sensitivity about it and ask her to cut back some. But if this was a new thing i would talk about it and consider finding somone that has a little more consideration for her bf feelings.
Either way you cant jump to conclusions, but its still fishy. Odds are nothing physical happened. He needs to decide where he stands on the non physcial and what he is comfortable with.
My bf doesnt care about txt messages or phone calls. If he asks me about them I tell him. I flirt with my friends and its all a big joke he understands that. But the difference is we have already talked about ..
Talk .. talk a lot.. and figure out where the boudaries are..
2006-12-06 11:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Frenchie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I would be PISSED off to the MAX. Does she call him when her boyfriend is home or only when he's away.? If its only when he's away then she is hiding something. I think she needs that feeling of being wanted and is in fear of being alone. I'm like that. But I have never cheated, however I do talk **** to other men and flirt alot but I would never take it to that extent. Maybe she's like me and its just companionship she needs. I hope every thing works out for her, she already has a great friend, if you love her enough to come on here and ask how to help than you are a wonderful friend.Good Luck.
2006-12-06 19:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by Missy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find another girl, common sense tells me, why waste time on somebody if you are not interested, so abviously she is flirting with him and trying to see how far it would go, teach her a lesson, set an example that you are a guy to be reconed with. Have some respect for yourself , she'll think of you highly.
2006-12-06 19:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by jinky l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think something happened with the girl and her co-worker and the other guy should break up with her.
2006-12-06 19:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would something is going on weather she actually did it or is thinking about doing it, I would give her an ultimative.
2006-12-06 19:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋