I hate them one day and love them another. I might like a girl one day but hate her the next. I think about asking the girl out, and I want to be her boyfriend and love that girl, but then, the next day, I think, forget it, I want to be alone forever, and I think about how mooshy love is, and how I was a fool for wanting to love someone.. What is up with me? I don't think I hate love but I flip flop all the time. I am a teeneager, so is that part of the problem?
2006-12-06 11:37:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm in the same position as you man. It's normal, especially for teenagers. This has been my problem recently too. Girls can be confusing but dont worry about it, once you meet the right person, things will get clear and you'll realize what you want.
2006-12-06 11:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like the challenge. I used to be like that, I liked being wanted by several. and once I had them I didn't want them. The fun was over. I finally just settled down a little over a year ago, 4 kids later, and I'm 28 years old. Being a teenager could have something to do with it cause you really don't know what you want right now but just take it one step at a time and enjoy life, never settle for less and just enjoy being wanted and know that you do deserve to be loved and everybody needs that. Good Luck.
2006-12-06 19:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by Missy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you don't LOVE someone just because you want to be her boyfriend. Love takes a considerable more amount of time to establish itself in a relationship. Besides you're not even to the point where you would date WOMEN. You date girls, I doubt a woman would give you much time considering your immaturity. But you're right you're a teen and that IS the problem. You want it all, it's not females who are frustrating it's yourself.
2006-12-06 19:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm also a teenager, and I'm kind of like that too. I think it's because I'm not ready for a relationship, and that might be the same for you. When you're confident and actually want to date someone, then you'll be ready to ask them out.
2006-12-06 19:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by saphiestar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, listen man, Ima teenager too, But I myslef used to feel that way too. At night i would miss my girlfriend, and used to want to talk to her and everything. But in the morning, I really didnt give a crap. But i dont feel that way anymore, we have had a pretty steady relationship so far, and i always miss her and want to talk to her. So my advice to you would be ask her out no matter how you feel, And just experience it. See what its like, and how you feel after you know what a relationship means.
2006-12-06 19:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by Kyle M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay okay, it is normal when you are a teenager. don't hurry. start with girls of your age. not with "women". try your age. take it easy. and don't think only about sx all the time cause it's gonna really frustrate the heck out of you
it is very normal to have such contradictory and extreme feelings when you are teenage. you will calm down later.
but... hey..... even when you feel you hate them - don't show it, please cause you may really hurt someone with these flipfloppings of yours.
go play basketball instead, sweat your anger out. don't pour it on your girl
cheerios
2006-12-06 19:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by warm candlelight and tea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wether or not you should be alone, you need to remain single untill you become more consistent because if you carry that shifty attitude into a relationship, it will surely spell disaster! Good luck.
2006-12-06 19:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really suggest you read the book, MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS. I know a lot of guys aren't into reading that much but I really think this book will help you understand women better. It sure helped me understand my husband better.
2006-12-06 19:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by tas211 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it might be part of the problem. Part of it also could be fear of rejection, being afraid that she'll turn you down. It's normal, don't worry.
2006-12-06 19:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your problem is you're a teenage guy thats pretty much how you all are. just looking to get some but afraid of comitment so you tell yourself you don't like her so you won't have to have a relationship.believe me i'm a victim of stupid teenage boys like that.
2006-12-06 19:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by Lakers/KobeGirl4Life! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋