the dad has a daughter 3 years younger than his child that lives outsides the home, he wants to see the sister he 7 she 4. so far he never meet his real father, but want to see the step-sister? should I make the first call to his house along with his wife, I don't want to cause problem in their household....but my son wants a sister sooooooo bad and I am not having anymore children...What do you think I should do?
2006-12-06 11:28:10 · 10 answers · asked by birdsdafly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Blessings of the young age is trust. The forming years of
trust have to happen. Why there is no interaction is not good.
Children however are drawn to fathers due the course of
providence. Perhaps there is little husbandry of maybe even
a line of substitutions in each life. Blessed children that are
perfect in the House of God like small angelicals do exist at
an alarming rate. Think of the right activities for the children
and pursue good friends with ex- if there is such a person. It
is not unknown to belong to property personalities that are not
at all whom you expected. Adult truth is here and is about good
blessings being the center of the real world. Don't set any
expectations of a husband that does not participate.
2006-12-06 11:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by mtvtoni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man that doesn't want any contact with his own child isn't a man at all. If you try to push your child onto a man who doesn't want contact it could end up hurting your child more than the seperation. Children are innocent in all of this. Don't subject your child to any further rejection than whats already happened. It sounds to me like the father is only doing what he is legally required to do. If you really want to contact him, try sending a letter to him letting him know that your child really wants a relationship with both him and the cibling. Let him know you want to work something out amicablly for the childs sake. If he is willing to do that, he can contact you. Just don't let the child know what you are doing until the father agrees to this. Don't worry, your child will live without a cibling if it comes to that. There are lots of things in life kids want. We cant have everything we want. Try getting a pet for your child if the father refuses to have a relationship.
2006-12-06 11:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the mum or yet another grownup has no criminal good to disclaim visitation. whether you on no account paid a dime in baby help basically the courtroom could make that order, so if the mum is making the alternative, she must be modern in contempt of courtroom. If on the different hand it relatively is the youngster pointing out he would not choose to flow to, then you will could touch the chum of the courtroom or notwithstanding branch on your community handles the circumstances. If he's under the criminal age to come back to a decision, then the youngster is needed with the aid of regulation to make the visits. you may touch a criminal expert to get this settled as quickly as achievable.
2016-10-04 23:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A child needs a father or at least a positive male influence as they grow up, especially boys. I think you should find someone who fits thats description to be involved in his/her life since the father is failing to do so. God Bless
2006-12-06 11:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The father has some rights too. If he has a reason for wanting to keep things at a distance then it should be respected. Explain to the boy that we can't have things like we want it just because we want it so bad.
2006-12-07 10:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be much worse-he could demand regular visitation with you doing all the transport to and from and not pay any child support. This scenario would require repeated court hearings to add to the mix. Be glad he supports his child financially and wait until the children are older to attempt any contact between them.
2006-12-06 11:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by Country girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cant force him to visit, but that will be his lost. As long as child support is paid, he is following through with court order.
2006-12-06 11:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just faced a similar situation- it's not worth it. my child was rejected by her dad and wanted to see her sis, but his wife had probs with it and he cut off communication all together. wait till they're older and can communicate on their own.
2006-12-06 11:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the call. do whatevers good for your child
2006-12-06 11:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by talk_to_the_hand!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure make a call...it wont hurt!
2006-12-06 11:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋