Sex.....is it a good idea?

Question

What are your thoughts? Do you like sex? Why? Or do you think it is over-rated?

Answer 1

Sex is very over rated, However I enjoy it very much. I never used to but I have finally found real love and its just not the same. It doesn't feel like "just sex" any more. My fiance' makes slow,passionate love to me. He is very gentle and he enjoys my body and my love. Its great. I do regret having sex so young but I am 28 now and I wish I would have waited. I had sex when I was 13 years old and after that first time I was like a robot. I did it all the time with whom ever would have me. But after my first child was born( a month after my17th Birthday) I chilled my hott *** down alot. Any ways, as women we go through changes, some times we want it all the time, 24/7 for months at a time and then other times we don't want to be touched or even bothered. And the doctors say its perfectly normal.

Answer 2

It is over-rated. Before I having sex I thought it would solve all problems so good people would talk about it (therapists, friends, males etc). Anyway you have a great night with multiple orgasms and all and next day you have to work all the same, pay the bills all the same. Everyone likes it, It is great, but it is often A WAY too over-rated among the dozens of other things that are ecqually important in life.

Answer 3

Is it overrated? Underrated? I'd say both. People spend a disproportionate amount of time thinking about it, trying to get it, and having it frivolously. I've heard people comment that to die without having sex is one of the most pitiful things they can think of.

It is overrated in that people think having it merely to be having it is so important. It is overrated in that they believe sexual experience somehow makes a person wiser. It is very much underrated, however, in how important and meaningful it is. If people realized what a fantastic institution sex was, they'd be much more careful with whom they had it.

Answer 4

It's a good idea as long as your married. I wouldn't know if I like it or not. I am young myself. Sex is over-rated for people who are too young.

Answer 5

Well your question is do I like sex…. well I wrote a 250 page book about it….. so yeah I like it. But he is an overrated? Certainly….. people can have very high expectations that turn out to not really happen.

Sex is good when you're with someone that you really enjoy. They'll notice I didn't say love. Because you use the word sex. Sex and love are certainly different things. You can certainly love someone, like Uncle Floyd, without having sex with him. And you can have sex with people without ever loving them or knowing their first name. Both of these things happen every day to millions of people.

Humans are one of the few species that have sex for pleasure. Although it could certainly be said throughout the animal kingdom the reward for sex is pleasure. Humans have found the most diverse ways to actually have sex. So billions of people “say” they like it by their actions, of making it more interesting, diversified and exciting.

You additionally asked Why ? Why do you like sex. For both partners it can be extremely pleasurable and intimate. You're using all the senses…. Touch… smell… sounds... and don't forget the most important sexual parts. This of course is a very emotional experience… heart pounding excitement of all that good stuff. Hopefully both of you are going to reach climax in one way or the other through this encounter. Orgasm for climax is obviously the goal. Of course women will find they need a man with enough experience to help them to achieve orgasm. But in both sexes this orgasm is a release of electrical impulses and chemicals that literally flood the body. Don't forget that a women’s ability to have orgasms far exceed men.

Is sex a good idea….. diseases…. well certainly that makes you think twice. But even get diseases from anything. You can get them from the place cooking your chicken… or mad cow…. you name it is a disease somewhere. Some diseases just like to find their way into sex. They found a convenient way to transport themselves. You just have to protect yourselves and know the people you were with. It's not a reason to not have sex it's a reason to be cautious.

Then there's the P word…. Pregnancy….. always a possibility with unprotected intercourse. With today's science on the table there's no reason anyone should get pregnant and lest they want to. Sex has responsibilities… you need to think about it before you enter into it

Summary….. sex is good… very good. It can be good for men and women as long as your partner is talented enough to help you enjoy it.


Had to comment on an answer or two above:

Missy S…. Wow where was Missy when I was 13??? You were one wild child. Missy deftly sounds like she did get robotic in sex…. sex for sex sake. But in one way that has set the stage for her to really appreciate someone who cares and “Makes Love” to her that is now special.

One person is said above “if your under 22 don’t do it”. That goes against most states… where the age of consent is between 16 and 18. But you can get shot at in Iraq as a soldier according to this person… 4 years before you have sex and 3 three years before you can drink….. does that make any sense?

One other person said “2.5 minutes of ticklish fun, 18 years of child support” 2.5 minutes….. dude you gotta like breath between there or something. That's fast… you need to work on your technique. I'll tell you something condoms are a lot cheaper than child-support.

One other person said Jessa… since you asked the question “what do you think?” I think we really confused God's intention with a bunch of people in the church below with the many years keep changing their mind. There's a great deal of sex in the Bible. I'm sure who's ever reading it to you is cleaning it up. People have sex outside of marriage every single second around the world…. it's a fact. When priests were having sex with the choir boys… did god kill them?… okay the church hid them away in a new place. Wouldn't this be the most evil sex of anything… but even they were not punished buy God. If you have sex and bring God into it… that would be a threesome.


Mark
Author GirlsTellAll

Answer 6

Sex is over rated definately. It is dull and boring. BUT making love to the one person you love is the most fantastic feeling in the world.

Answer 7

As a man i say that its over rated. The best part of a relationship is enjoying the other person.

Answer 8

People who aren't married and who does sex with their partner abuse sex. Do I have to explain it? It's really obvious. Generally, sex is for marriage ONLY! We are made as a sexual being [you should thank God for that if you believe in him] However, we are not created as a sexual object. Meaning people who use sex as a pleasure... what do you think? (I'm not gonna explain it -It's a rhetorical question)

Answer 9

Over-rated if you just do it all the time with about anybody with a pulse. Very fulfilling if you know that this person is there to stay and cares & desires you.

Answer 10

Sex...it's not just a job. It's an adventure.