i am with this boy whom i really like and he says he already lost his virginity and asked me how long do i want to be one so i think he wants to have sex with me now but i am scared and plus i have never made out with anyone before in my life!
2006-12-06 11:15:23 · 17 answers · asked by .#]\NiGhTmArE/[#. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not a question of how long. It's don't do it until you're ready. There is NO chance that this guy is going to be your one and only chance. More people regret losing early than don't. It's definitely worth the wait. And if he thinks the same, then maybe he is too.
2006-12-06 11:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Liberal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years. you don't want to do anything that you aren't ready for. It doesn't matter if he's done it or not. And since you've never made out with someone, it will definately be awhile. Sex isn't something to rush into. You should wait until you find a guy you really care for. And don't say this guy is the one, you're 14. Live a little. Have some fun in your life. You'll appriciate yourself more if you wait.
2006-12-06 11:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by Tim H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, dont do it just b/c a guy wants it..a guy will tell you he loves you just to get it, alot of them have no shame..if he care about you in the same way that you do he will wait until you are ready if ever you are, you might decide to wait till marriage, however when ever you do decide make sure you pick up a condom(some guys say but baby it feels better raw or anything to that extent, so id bring one just incase he doesnt have one), or some form of birthcontrol, you dont know what kind of stds are floating around, and you do not want to have a baby to early, im 21 with a 6 month old and as much as i love her I wish I would of waited till after I finished my college degree..
2006-12-06 11:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by heathers_work_from_home 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey don't even listen to that little boy and his lies. You are too young to be thinking about sex. There's other things such as sexually transmitted diseases, pregnancy, and your emotions....You do not want to open the door for any of these situations to come upon you. He may even suggest to use a condom....Run quicky...and don't look back.......Having sex is a major decision. And when parents try to tell kids not to have sex it's because they love you. It's hard for kids to parent a kid if they're still a kid themselves. Wait at least until you're 18 graduated from High School. Even then use protection. My real suggestion is to wait until you're married with someone who loves you. You don't want to end up with a child and alone...and struggling financially.
2006-12-06 11:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait so you've never made out with someone but your thinking about losing your virginity.....I guess im not the only one
anyway i think you should wait (From what i hear it isnt that great the first time for most girls anyway)If he like you likes you a lot he will respect that decision and wait until your actually ready
2006-12-06 11:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by Nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think 14 is way too young, but lots of people are doing it as teens.
it shouldn't be about age. it should be about love. make sure your relationship is serious. make sure it is love. and most importantly, make sure you are ready to deal with the consequences of sex (this includes emotional issues as well as the risk of pregnancy and diseases).
sex should be the last step in a relationship. if you haven't even kissed or made out yet, then start slow.. kiss him when you are ready..
but i'd save sex til you are older.. your virginity is a special gift you can only every give away once.. make sure you don't do anything you'll regret for the rest of your life..
2006-12-06 11:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do not be bothered by that thing, you have much a lot to do with your life,focus on your studies because that will be your future, think about your parents too. who are expecting you will achieve something in your life. Besides if you decide of going to bed with this guy, i'm sure it will not be only once, think of the consequences, what if you get pregnant? Will you be ready? that is a big responsibility. What if the guy wants just fun and after that he will just dump you? you are young, you have so much to enjoy with life and not sex. and be a responsible person.
2006-12-06 11:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by odel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to slow your roll, for real. Why rush? I mean really? You hang on to your V for as long as you can. Cus once it is gone you lost it forever. Its the only thing you can truly give to some one once in your life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I mean if you don't think your going to wait till married at least wait till its someone you can trust, and you are wayyyyyyy to young, how will you raise a kid and go to high school? Na honey, you need to worry about flirting and hugs, kisses, but not sex. Believe me you will regret it if you do this early in life.
2006-12-06 11:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't rush to be with anyone. You are still very young. There are many other things you should be worrying about instead of getting a disease or getting pregnant. You are in school and need to focus on that. Do not let this boy pressure you to do anything.
2006-12-06 11:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down, don't rush it. A lot of times boys brag about sex so they dont look bad. Wait for the right time and the right moment. Dont get harrassed into it.
2006-12-06 11:20:45 · answer #10 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋