I had a crush on her for ages, I missed my chance, I was too shy, now she's with someone else and I can't get a girlf......I like to remember the pain it makes me feel alive....?...
2006-12-06 10:53:19 · 16 answers · asked by Dan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like the song by Rihanna-Unfaithful
2006-12-06 10:53:56 · update #1
I don't mind being honest on here whatever you(reader) think....
2006-12-06 11:00:14 · update #2
Insulting people please realise the statements you are making about yourselves. Yeh I write poetry it's great. K M ***
2006-12-06 11:03:43 · update #3
dont dwell on the past, no one falls in love with your tears they fall in love with your smile!!! xxxx
2006-12-06 10:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by SARA H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was going out with a girl i really liked and she dumped me, but she was upset about it(trouble at Home) and it really hurt, but i have been in your current perdicament and know how you feel. But the feeling after a break up is ten times worse than what your feeling but man it isn't the end of the world. Its still hard for me because i still like my ex but life is too short, get out there don't look for a girlfriend, when the time is right you will meet a girl you like and ye will become friends and you can go from there. Trust me you'll be less nervous around a girl that you really do like, you can take my word for that. Feel better man.. i hope i helped
2006-12-06 11:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by hidawallace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are she doesn't even know that you've gone through hell because you were too shy to tell her. You suffered so much instead of dealing with a possible rejection? Don't feed on negative emotions dude. Get on with your life. Pick up the pieces and whatever you've learnt and try to be braver next time. Let the girl be happy with her guy. It's a beautiful life and you'd be surprised that one day (when it's your turn to be happy with someone) you meet this girl on the street and you don't even remember her name... Good luck!
2006-12-06 11:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by bigblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Elation makes you feel more alive. Do yourself a huge favour and get a few books and work on your shyness. I was so shy I could hardly speak. I worked hard and realized that girls and women are just people and everyone likes to be noticed and talked to. So be yourself but stand up straight, maintain your self-esteem and chat to girls... alot. Practice makes perfect and when it is about talking to women it is oh so true!!!
Good luck Fry. Seize the day Dude and work on yourself... it's the best job you'll ever find.. and all good.
2006-12-06 11:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too down. Time is a great healer, so you will feel better over the weeks. And when you meet someone else to focus on, she will become a great distant memory. Cheer up, chill out, and move on. Good luck x
2006-12-06 11:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by beanie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to tell you the truth i am shy 2 and i kno how you feel that happen to me before. Just try to be her friend still and be there for her when she needs help and when you get another chance then go for it.
2006-12-06 10:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by babychula928 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gotta agree with DrSteve, lol. the difference between your situation and Rihanna's song is she was actually WITH the guy and u just fantasized about bein with this girl. get over it dude. in 5 years you'll wonder what u saw in her. there ARE other chicks out there. stop masturbatin between your tears and got meet 'em.
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2006-12-06 10:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you seem like a happy go lucky guy... wonder why she went off with somebody else? Are you one of those twatty emo kids who's going to plague this site with your wanky poems about how you want to die for the next six months? Do us all a favour and take a step up from self harm to suicide.
2006-12-06 10:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by dr.twaticus 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i was just like this and now im friends with her and it helps me cope with life because before i was a wreck and just wanted to kill myself so try and become friends and as soon as sshe breaks up leap into action and ask her out and since you are a friend already you may be able to get a date and then things can progress
2006-12-06 10:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how your feeling, but you really can't keep hold of that pain. you have to let it go and move on. you can never find yourself a g/f if you carry on like that. get over it and you Will reap the rewards. trust me, ive been there and done it. its hard to get over but you will be glad when you do.
2006-12-06 11:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by steph_wright48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She clear as day isn't sorry for rejecting you said you missed your chance and now she's with someone else so find someone else.
2006-12-06 10:57:43 · answer #11 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋