ok im almost grown now well i have a year left til im gon from high school or whateva but i get a headache when i wake up this morning and decide to got to school thinking it might get better but to only find out that it doesnt so ileave school and go home and i tell like the dean of school and the lady at the fron desk where im going and i go and im sleep for 4 hours until 3 and obviously since i didnt sign out the school calls my mom and dad. Well my dad comes home and gets in my face about not telling anybody where im going and starts cussing at me and im like ni99a hold on cus u aint been here all this time and now u wanna start acting like a parent and start being concerned so i play basketball and hes like u need to go to practice and i tell him that thats the reason i came home becasue i didnt feel good so were arguing the whole way over there i just wanna know why he starts to act like a parent 16 years into my life.
2006-12-06 10:46:17 · 5 answers · asked by gurl_balla14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
for the first person who answered this, ***** if this is not 1906 then dont use the word! I asked for peoples opinons not for a damn english teacher and im not 16 that is just how long he has been out of my life u need to carefully read next time i dont need a ******* english teacher!
2006-12-06 11:01:12 · update #1
Everyone should now read this i am not 16 years old that his how long my dad has been out of my life meaning since i was 2 because i will be 18 in february
2006-12-06 11:13:58 · update #2
for the sixth person to answer my question my dad hasent done **** for me except for the past year my mom has always been there no matter what and when i move out i will provide for myself because my MOM is sending me through school and i will graduate and play pro basketball so i will put a roof over my own head and put clothes on my own back and put food into my own mouth *****
2006-12-06 11:46:33 · update #3
i know that he wasnt there for you and that you have feelings of hurt and anger. but now he is around and some parents never come back and dont want to see their kids. be thankful he is there . he should also let you explain the situation to him without him yelling at you have a heart to heart talk with him and tell him that yelling is not going to solve anything. ask him if he is willing to sit down and talk sensibly with you.tell him that if he wants a father and daughter relationship that he is going to have work on it. it is a sad thing to see families fall apart. have you and your dad really sat down and talked about things? it sounds like you need to get to know him all over again. he probably doesnt know how to be a parent. get some family counseling and get to knoe each other again as a family. go to church and get involved with activities as a family.
2006-12-06 11:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're almost 18 you should be more responsible. If you choose to walk out of school, then don't be mad when your dad yells at you when he finds out. Grow up. You are not a child anymore. Start taking some responsibilty for your action. If you don't like following the rules, when you turn 18 you can move out. I wonder who is going to put a roof over your head and feed and clothe you.
2006-12-06 19:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in that whole paragraph you managed to use one single full stop in your punctuation.
no wonder your dad acts the way he does, because he is right when he feels you arent paying attention to him, or even your teachers at school.
you need to realise you are 16 years old, and you need to start taking advice from adults around you, it will help you to be come a better and more educated young woman.
plus i am revolted to hear a young girl refer to someone as a ni99a. we live in 2006 sweet heart, not 1906.
2006-12-06 18:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by He moonwalked on my <3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe your dad feel that is better late than never? Call a member of your family next time and let them know what's going on--that's save your "next" headache for you and maybe they'll understand better. Let them know that you had a terrible headache and explain it to them. Communication is always best.
2006-12-06 19:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parents do that... you're invisible to you mess up!!
I'm not sure what you should do, but you should listen to your dad. Even if he is talking crap.. he's stil your father.. as soon as your old enough move out!!
2006-12-06 19:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋