my friend tells me im hot that im cool and he likes me but never asks me out i dont wana be the one to ask
i know he wants to but he just cant seem to get it out he normaly trys to ask me but then it ends up as u wana come for a walk then he talks about stuff and acts like we r dating but we r not
he confuses me so much
why dont i understand guys i feel like an idiot
2006-12-06 10:39:24 · 9 answers · asked by catcfh1020 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So which is it? Hot or Cool? He's shy - I know, I've been there. He's afraid you'll say "no" and that this will ruin your friendship. Do both of you a favour and ask him out on a date. If you can;'t bring yourself to do that, give him permission to ask e.g. "If you asked me out on a date I'd say "Yes!""
2006-12-06 10:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is let him know about ur feelings in an indirect way, where u dont have to ask him out. I had this problem b4. Most of the times people r scared of asking their friend out because, they r scared of loosing the friend. So, next time u hang out just casually slip in and tell him that it's kinda cool that two friends hook up and become bf and gf. Because sometimes great relationships start with friendship. And u r completely cool with it..and also u can give him some example appropriate from the people u know..who became partners from friends. Good luck.
2006-12-06 10:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think he likes you but doesnt feel like its the right moment ot ask oyu out the same thing happened to me hes like i have to talk to u something wit love but never told me but he eventually got to it so dont worry it will happen. Also you just need to hang out the movies because then like watch a scary movie or something then when you get scared you can cuddle against him and maybe he'll make a move. No your not an idiot guys just sometimes have their confusing ways!!
2006-12-06 10:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont feel like an idiot obviously hes confused
maybe he wants you but maybe hes not too sure
try hinting you want to date him
like hold his hand
or say how much he means too you
just go for it :]
2006-12-06 10:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jesica<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he asks to go on a walk or something say like why don't we go and see a movie i heard such and such is a really good movie and then maybe things will progress on
2006-12-06 10:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it and ask him out. if he acts like your dating then he thinks you are
2006-12-06 10:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by death_of_faries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him then ask him out because it sounds like he doesnt want tension between u two
2006-12-06 10:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's because he might not want to damage your friendship. he might think that you don't like him or something. just talk to him about it.
2006-12-06 10:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because you ARE an idiot
Don't fight it!
2006-12-06 10:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋