what should i do about my threesome wit my bf fam?

Question

my bf wnt away on busines,i suspected he was cheatn,so i had a threesome wit his sexy best frend and bro...now im pregnant dnt no huz it is,eitha my bf's,his bro or his best frends.my boyfrend came home a few days later and proposed wit a huge rock,it turned out he cud onli get the perfect ring frm this certain place.im so sorry n regret it so much wat shud i do?

Answer 1

Time to fess up
start by softening him up with a threesome with another girl!

Answer 2

Well if you loved your bf why did you do it? Now just hope it's the bf's because if not you know he will kick you to the curb. You have a 66% chance to get it right since one of the guys you slept with is his brother and has the same enentic genes. SO lets hope it's not the Best friends. ALso you should know better than to ahve sex unprotected, hope the bro and best friend haven't given you an STD. But you should hope that it turns out ok. But you have never done it. Especially in a threesome what you some kind of a hoe. I doubt it but hey just hope and wish if not , Good Luck.

Answer 3

first you need a pregnancy test then you need to come clean and the cheating the problem with the pregnancy test will be that since his DNA is so close to his brothers the may be a problem with the lab figuring out whether he is the father or the brother is the father. if the best friend is the father it's alot easier for the lab to know,. either way it's not good for you. you also need to find out what your conception date was and how far along you are. as for the relationship itself, you need some serious work. and some good communication if there IS any relationship left to save because it's obvious there is some trust issues there. in the immdeiate there is a baby to raise and you need to make preperations for that in addition to figuring out who the father is and let him know because he DOES have the right to know no matter how you feel abouthim. (sorry, it's the right thing to do.) in the meantime, if you boyfriend wants to help raise the baby even if its not his tell him he is more than welcome to stick around but you need to work on the relationship. consider yourself on probation. you must have had some idea of WHY you thought he was cheating. you really need to talk to him about that.

Answer 4

I'm going to assume the spelling is some kind of typing talk. However, it is annoying, it makes me get a headache.

If this is the case, and you really are somewhat upperclass, just maybe you have a real big rock. And your version of big, really is big, big from only a certain place means it's a few carats.

By the way, based on your actions, you are not ready for the commitment. You have to turn him down, tell him why, and start over.

He might understand. He probably won't. I wish I could be a fly on the wall when he beats his friend.

Answer 5

This sounds like a typical Maury Povich show. Call the producers and have them fly you out to be on the show, at which time you will take a paternity test(after the child is born of course) to find out if the bf is the father. Judging by the lack of grammar skills you exude, I am guessing all partied involved would fit right in on that show ;)

Answer 6

Something like this proves that "two wrongs don't make a right". You SUSPECTED him of cheating so you DID cheat. Wow. Your relationship is definitely not built on a foundation of trust, is it? I would say this whole mess is just a glimpse of things to come.

Blood is thicker than mud and eventually his brother will probably tell him he had sex with you. It sounds to me like you were a hell of a conquest for his brother and his best friend. They will brag about it.

Good luck to you. I sincerely hope you find a good answer to this situation, because there isn't. In the long run, the right thing to do is to come clean with everyone. It's not the easy thing to do, but it is the right thing to do.

Answer 7

First, come clean. You don't want to have to explain why the baby had a genetic test *after* he gets here, and you don't want to get married on a lie.

Second, if he's mad (which is entirely likely) beg him for forgiveness. Get on both knees and actually beg. Sooner is better than later, because as you get more pregnant it's going to get harder to get on your knees and back up. It will also be nice for you to do something symbolic to "make it up to him." You can't actually undo the damage, but you can show him that you would if you could. That can go a long way to helping heal the hurt.

Third, don't complain about anything at his batcholer party (after this, I'll bet he has a wild one just to show himself he's not being played for a fool) but you have a very very *very* concervative bridal shower/bachlorette party.

Answer 8

So you had an affair, got pregnant, and your boyfriend came back all in a few days? What if none of the 3 that you mentioned are the baby's daddy? Sounds like someone needs to keep their legs shut!!

Answer 9

Did you say yes? If you did, well you need to tell him what happend. Either way, he needs to know. Think of it in reverse roles and if he did the same thing to you. How would you react? I say he needs to find out and the sooner the better. Its your choice, but it can really cause problems later in life if you didnt choose to tell him and for some reason a DNA test is done and hes proven not to be the father.

Answer 10

You have a hard decision to make I would tell him because his brother and friend might tell him and then he will hate you forever, but also if you think that they might not say any thing than don't you. Something are meant to be left in the closet and it don't sound like you are tring to loose him. If you can get away with keeping it a secret keep it.

Answer 11

Be truthful with your boyfriend and tell him about what happened. Its not fair on him if you go on with a lie, you never know it may all work out and he accepts you and your pregnancy. You did something foolish but now you have a chance to overcome it, so just tell him the truth. Look to God before anything, ask him what you should do.