2006-12-06 10:34:30 · 20 answers · asked by h_bear1808 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hate is a very strong word,i would go and be your self.you know you catch more flies w/honey so be the sweet one,enjoy your holiday and be your self.you don't have to entertain them but smile and say merry christmas. merry christmas and good luck.
2006-12-06 10:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite the family members you do like to you house a few days before Christmas and celebrate with them then.
On Christmas create a new Christmas tradition for you (and your kids if you have kids). Invite friends over that do not have family in the area, go help at a soup kitchen / homeless shelter. Go be a secret Santa to a needy family. Be creative.
2006-12-06 10:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by luv3dbb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same position you are in right now. The only thing i would suggest is, avoid the family you hate. If one of your family members plan on having a x-mas dinner, just avoid there house, most likely they'll understand. It's going to get better with time. just tell yourself, its going to get worse before it gets better.
PS. some of the answers you have gotten are helpful.
2006-12-06 16:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by poohbear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that Christmas is not about presents or all the fuss of the holidays. Christmas is celebrating the birth of Christ who came into this world to die because he loved us so. If He could do that for you, you can surely tolerate a few relatives for a few hours. Remember the true spirit of the season and let there be peace.
2006-12-06 10:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just try to keep visits with the family members you don't really like so much to a minimum, and if they're really unbearable, supply an activity like a board game or a movie, so you don't have to just sit around trying to come up with things to say and eventually getting into a fight.
2006-12-06 10:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at family functions, just try to make the best of the situation. The main thing is don't make a scene and ruin everyone's Christmas if you can help it.
2006-12-06 10:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by bobbie v 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps spend time with friends as well as family. hang with your family on Christmas day and then try to go to a friend's house so you won't have to be with your family as much.
2006-12-06 10:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 08:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore the hated family members...i have the same problem (but they aren't family, they're step family)
2006-12-06 10:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get the best put up with the rest its part of being in family
2006-12-06 10:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by ann jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋