Am i thinking too much out of this?

Question

We are both seniors at high school
I have been secretly crushing on this girl and hinting her (could it be that she realized it?)

I was talking to my crush today(as always)...
Ok here are the EXACT words
we were talking about movies
So she was like "ohhh you should go see this"
then she followed up with when am I going to go see it
cause then she said "cuz i want to come too" (since she work there and i think she can go in for free)

Does she want to give me a shot (How does she know i like her)?

Is she giving me a shot...
What should i do?
I do NOT want to screw this up...
Should i bring her a gift? (I have already bought her a gift that she told that she wanted it but since dont got any money at the moment cant get it... should i give it to her on that day or as
orginiall planned - as her xmas present?)

Today she was waving at me in class but i thought she was waving to her friend so i didnt wave back... =s

Thanks this means aLOT to me...

Answer 1

Dude! Relax!

You're putting too much importance on this one girl. That is a great way to screw it up. Back up and relax. Take a few deep breaths. Here's some specific answers:

1- Yes, it sounds like she is giving you a "shot".

2- Yes, she knows you like her. Girls have a way keener sense of these things. I'm guessing you're lighting up like a lightbulb around her. She knows. Trust me on that.

3- DO NOT bring her a gift. That is for later on if you two start developing a relationship.

4- Ask her to the movie. Don't make a big deal of it. I think this is your real issue,right? Your afraid to ask her because she will scream out "NO WAY! NOT WITH A LOSER LIKE YOU!" And everyone will see it and you'll be embarassed and have to change schools Right?That's NOT going to happen. Really. Unless she is a biggest ***** in school and hates you for some reason, but it sounds like that is not the case at all. The worst thing that can happen is that she'll say no thanks, and will most likely be very nice about it. Make it easy....Just say that your going on such and such a day and that she should join you since you know she's interested in it too. If she can't go, big deal. Keep the same date to go and ask someone else instead.

5- In the meantime try not to talk to her as much. You know that saying absence makes the heart grow fonder? It's the truth. If you keep smothering her (even, wait, no...especially with kindness) you're likely to drive her away. Make sure you talk to other girls at school, and she knows that you do. You don't want her thinking your obsessing over her.



Good luck.

Answer 2

Since you're not sure of her feelings toward you, go to the movies with her and see how she reacts with you when you two are alone. Bring the gift, girls love getting presents. If it's small try holding off giving to her until the end of the movie. Try to stay in the theater until it's pretty empty when the credits are rolling and just say something along the lines of "I know you wanted this so I just thought it would be great to get it for you. You deserve it." Keep an eye on her actions the whole time you are together and see if she flirts with you. If you think she really likes you like you like her then you may have to take the risk and ask her how she feels about you.

Answer 3

ahhh, it sounds like "love" is in the air to me.

I know it's hard, but try not to over analyse the situation - just enjoy it.

I think it would be better to give the gift to her as a xmas present. If you don't want to go empty handed just take a single rose to give to her on the day at the movies (not a whole bunch) or a small box of chocolates.

Dont worry about accidently not waving to her, you will come across more funny situations throughout life but you just have to learn not to focus on things that have made you feel embarresed and focus on the fact that this girl is really into you!

All the best.

Answer 4

Okay chill out a little...its okay!

Well from a females point of view...If I DON'T like a guy...Im not going to mention anything about going to the movies with him or anything else in that nature...soo...maybe she does...but maybe when ya'll go if u decided to go, you should ask her about it while ya'll are getting snacks or while the previews are on...just be real and say" Look...such and such, I don't know if you know that I like you or not, but I do and were good friends and maybe this may be a little weird for you, BUT i just wanted to know if you felt the same about me, if not its cool..we can still chill and be good friends, and if you do..then good for me... :-)!!" See there u go!!

Oh and the thing with the gift...DO NOT bring her a gift to the movies...thats so cheesy to me... it seems like thats stuff that ppl who are dating or married would do...that would honestly make me feel too mushy that we're just chillin and goin to see a movie and ur like bringing me gifts...so I would just wait until Christmas! Good Luck !!

Answer 5

YES. she is definitely crushing on you. That is how girls act. You should maybe give her present to her after the movie, (If you don't plan on seeing her before them)I think it would be the best to invite her to dinner and than give it to her or somehting like that. When she waves wave back. Call her or talk to her and set up a date for the movies. SHE IS DEFINITLY LIKING U.

Answer 6

Quit over thinking this and just go ahead and go to the movie with her. Be yourself, and see what happens. As for the gift, save it for the original intent, she might otherwise think you're being a bit too overbearing.
Good luck

Answer 7

just be yourself
she likes you enough to be your friend and invite herself to a movie with you
just calm down and dont think so much about it

Answer 8

just ask her if she wants to go with u get some balls dude.

Answer 9

sounds like she is interested or she likes you as a friend.