My boyfriend of two years broke up w/ me a month ago. Stated he still loved me but needed some time apart to fix the things we always fought about (i.e. his lack of a job, apartment, money etc.)
2 weeks ago he called and we talked just casually. At the end of the convo he told me to call him sometime and we should go for coffee.
I waited two weeks to call him (wasnt ready). I called him. He didnt answer. He called me back. I was out.The next day I called him back and he didnt answer.
I called him again today. He answered and we talked for an hour. Just very casually about whats been going on in our lives. At the end of the conversation I asked him if he wanted to get together and he said sure and just to give him a call.
What do you guys think? I still have feelings for him. And hope he does for me.
But I need help on how to play out this situation. Thanks
2006-12-06 10:21:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesn't seem like he's that interested in gettin back with u when he keeps puttin the onus on u to contact him. if he REALLY wanted back with u, he'd be callin non stop.
2006-12-06 10:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of it as a situation to play out. Be yourself, be honest about what you want -- which may mean sitting down with a trusted friend and talking from the heart.
Do you want him back? Did he take care of the things you always fought about? Did you have a change of heart about any of those things? Are things different now?
What it boils down to is: Is your life better with him, or without him? Do the two of you have such radically different life goals that you can't imagine a shared future that satisfies both of you? Does staying with him require so much anxiety, struggle, or unhappiness that you've been happier the past month without him, even though you were lonely?
Those are the questions to ask. When you've answered them... you'll know what to do.
2006-12-06 18:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by Scott F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think every girl should be treated like princess, so you call him fine, but don't tell him that you still love him, not now. wait till he says it first or at least push him to tell you that he needs you and loves you and that he regrets the time that he away from you.
make him feel that he was wrong when he decided to leave.
then if you really love him and you are sure that he loves you, do it, be together again
also no harm to remind him that he hurt you when he left and make him promise you to try to work things out with you in a better way, nicer way. but don't do that until he tells you that he wants to back to you.
i hope you get what you want, just be careful and remember that you are a princess
And follow your heart
good luck
2006-12-06 18:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel in your heart is right. Even if you make a mistake, oh well . . . we're human and EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US messes up from time to time. The key to what makes a person is how they handle what they have and the mistakes that they make. So, if you feel like hanging out with him, go ahead. If you feel like moving on, do it. If you were meant to be together, you will be, no matter what it looks like right now or how dismal it may seem.
2006-12-06 18:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by Batracer04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there with my x. We were infatuated w/ each other but it wasn't healthy. We eventually broke up because she slept with the neighbor. The relationship I'm in now...we dint fight at all. Like not at all... even when we were poor. Arguing is a sign of bad stuff
2006-12-06 18:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Josh M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most couple break up after 2 yrs. give it some time and then get back together if you both want to. but by now try thinking of something more serious than just dating---which gets old
2006-12-06 18:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anna Banana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be the bearer of bad news, but I for one do not see it happening, sorry sweetie it is time to move on.
2006-12-06 18:27:01 · answer #7 · answered by bootjack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i hate to tell you this but he is with someone else and he is just being nice you need to get on with your life
2006-12-06 18:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want a relationship with somebody that doesn't work?
2006-12-06 18:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by patti r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the situaition?
2006-12-06 18:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by LiL TrIsTeSa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋