He is so sweet and kind but he does get a little annoying. He likes to pretend he is turned on by me and I love him. How can I be sure that he loves me?
2006-12-06 09:49:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he says he does them you have to trust him.
2006-12-06 09:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by Velouria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is like air. You can't see it, but you know it's there. It's a feeling you get it when he looks at you a certain way, when he goes out of his way to do special things for you, when you know that he's the only one you want to be with, and when the world seems to stop for just you two. That's love. When that stuff happens, you can be sure he loves you. As far as the "annoying" thing goes...all guys are annoying. It's just a matter of how much you wanna put up with. And why is he "pretending" to be turned on by you? Meaning...he really isn't? That's odd.
2006-12-06 09:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by aslgirl143 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like you have confidence issues that make you think that he is lying to you no matter what he says or does. Even in the healthiest of relationships theres never a guarantee that those feelings will stay that way forever. You need to trust him, once you do, issues on whether he really loves or not won't matter. That's the one thing that people usually say about love, that its a risk. At the same time though, thats the fun thing about it, you may get hurt by people you let into your life but if you don't kiss the frogs, how will you find the prince, right? You need to relax and have fun with your boyfriend, get to know him, spoil him and let him spoil you. If hes the one your meant to be with things will work out for you guys, if your not meant to be they won't. It just means you'll need to keep looking.
About the annoying things though, you'll need to get past those and except him despite those little annoying things, all people no matter what have annoying quirks, part of loving that person is accepting that, I'm sure there are little things you do that bug him also.
The little things that annoy us about them now, are the little things that we miss about them when they're gone.
2006-12-06 10:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
u can never be sure. but the way to get an idea is through his actions. if he shows that he is interested in everything about u, and not just your C00CHIE. it's how he looks at u. love has a different meaning to different people so it's not easy to gauge but his actions will tell u.
p.s. if u are under say, the age of 18, u shouldn't waste too much of your energy on a relationship. 9 times out of 10 the relationships people have when they are teens never turn into marriage so what's the point. just have fun and enjoy being young and experiencing ALL life has to offer.
2006-12-06 09:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He gets annoying? How. I frankly don't understand what you're talking about. He likes to "pretend" he is turned on by you? WTC? I'm just going to answer the question and not pay attention to your details because they're bogus.
Anyway, having someone just say they love you is not always a way to be sure. Although, the way they tell you they love you is. The way my boyfriend tells me (his voice gets very soft and you can see the love in his eyes), I know he's telling the truth. It's also the sweet things he does like holding me tight, massaging my back, massaging my fingers when we hold hands. You can tell. Just pay attention to the details.
2006-12-06 09:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't be questioning his love if you say that you love him! If you love him.... then you should trust him... if you don't trust him then why do you love him.
There's no way to "test" if he loves you, you'll just know by the way he acts towards you.
How do you know he pretends to be turned on by you.... how do u know its not sincere?
2006-12-06 09:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
only say "oh ok it really is tremendous" and then tell them in a polite way that u sense fascinated in them(on condition that u are) yet do not quite luv them yet.do not even by mistake tell someone u love them if u do not,Its the hardest situation ever for me,i only sense like my tongue is heavy after I attempt to do it, lol,all th perfect!
2016-11-24 19:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a risk. You cant be sure. Never. I'm sorry, but life isn't easy, thats why its called life. Good luck though!
2006-12-06 09:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by College Wifey 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're annoyed by him maybe he should be asking how he can be sure that you love him.
2006-12-06 09:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by ncaachamp 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask his friends.
usually if a guy really loves his girl, he will brag about her. if his friends say "he always talks about u and how much he loves u" then u can be sure
2006-12-06 09:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if he really loves you he would not have a problem telling the world.
2006-12-06 09:53:35 · answer #11 · answered by Mellow_kitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋