I am so in love with my ex-boyfriend but when we were together we spent everyday together.But our relationaship didnt last long at all but I am completely in love with him I will do anything for him. He moved and then came back he still called me every other day when he was gone but he got a new girlfriend where he did stay at but her still calls me all the time even though we are not together I just cant get over him I have tried. I am really in love we have been through so much even through hell I just cant let it go. His girlfriend knows about me. She evens call my phone and make prank calls. What should I do?
2006-12-06 09:46:47 · 8 answers · asked by youngbreezy_123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You CAN let it go. Start having respect for yourself.. Toughen up and say "I am stronger than this and I am more mature than this". You will feel way better about yourself! The only way to gain respect is to have respect for yourself.
2006-12-06 09:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, but you're going to have to let go. He obviously doesn't want you as a girlfriend or you'd be where the other girl is right now. The only way you're going to be able to move on is to stop talking to him. I know you want to and you will want to for a while, but for right now until you get past this, it's the best. A while down the road you will feel more comfortable talking to him and you won't have those feelings. As much as you think you always will, you won't. By the way things sound (by her prank calling you and crap) you all sound young, which is not a bad thing, it's actually better because there's a definite that you will get past it! Good luck to you and keep your head up!! Things will get better!
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2006-12-06 09:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by ParisLynn16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK here we go.... yeah i have been through what you have been through, and kinda going through it,,,, 1st it takes half the time you were with him to get over with him soe if you were with him for 2 years then one year you should be over him.Yeah you love him but does he love you? if he is still calling ask him why cause he has a nw girlfriend,,,, the new girlfriend must be jelous of something to be prank calling,,,, tell him about it, and say its either me or her,,, and i know it is hard but i would try and not call him and tell him not to call,,,, i know your thinking im crazy for saying that but i have gone through what you have plus more,,, atleast you dont have his email password to check what girls he is talking to,,,, ha yeah guilty feel bad about it but still sneaky,,,, i have a new bf now and he is 100% better then my Ex....put on girl music that makes you mad at him go out meet guys, just have one night stands or even just hook up and make out,,, make yourself feel sexy and try and atrack guys, you will find someone new it feels like you dont want anyone else but trust me if he can call you all the time but still have a gf that is jelous then whats the point ,,, if he still wants you make it really hard for him to get you like only answer your phone every 3rd time he calls even though it is hard only call back ever so often. say your busy and so on,,, but my main point is maybe move on and wait a few months before you talk to him and maybe be friends. good luck.
2006-12-06 09:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this girl is jealous of you. What does this mean? Maybe she's jealous because this guy might still have feelings for you. She wouldn't feel threatened for any other reason. As for him, he has a girlfriend. The only thing you can do is be his friend and wait to see what happens with them before you tell him anything.
2006-12-06 09:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u cant let him go then i guess ur gonna have 2 deal w/the fact u still love him and he may or may not feel the same... but if he still calls u and tlks 2 u (even tho he moved away) then maybe, just maybe he still has some feelings for u...
good luck!!
2006-12-06 09:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by abi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like you need to tell him to make a decision. He can't have it both ways. He can either be with you or her. If he doesn't choose than you need to stay away from him. Talking to him is clearly only hurting you. If he cared he wouldn't do that to you.
2006-12-06 10:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with this guy, frankly tell him what he really wants from you, but dont reveal your true feelings towards him. have a little dignity my dear., sometimes love makes us blind, we dont even care what people might say, and our eyes are closed and we are blind.
2006-12-06 09:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by Salvacionf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep on being stupid and when you catch aids then you can get smart and loose the thought of being so in love with him
2006-12-06 09:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋