my ex is asking me out to dinner and to spend the night to "talk"
what should i do???
2006-12-06 09:38:36 · 25 answers · asked by feelinliketanto 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if your not engaged in any other relationship i say it would be ok, but i think that if she has other plans then, i wouldn't go. you guys divorced for what ever reason. i wouldn't make anything harder than it probably already is. but if she really wants to just talk, maybe she wants to make things better. i don't know. i say go with your gut instinct on this.
2006-12-06 09:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by monica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel comfortable with. If you are the one who ended the relationship then I definitely would not go out to dinner and spend the night. If she ended the relationship you have to consider if it is worth giving her a second chance because it sounds like that is what she is wanting. Go with your instincts. If you feel that nothing good will come out of this then by all means do not go. Good Luck!
2006-12-06 09:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your history and whethe or not you still have feelings for her. Maybe you should just have dinner and see how it goes before committing to spending the night- even if it's "just to talk". If you are not interested in having an ongoing relationship with her, then don't go...
Not knowing your history with her makes it tough to answer.
2006-12-06 09:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
except dinner invertation take a friend but refuse to spend night so u dont get wrongly equised of anything at a later date
2006-12-06 09:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by LAURANE C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is the relationship over if you both love each other no more games .......why go to dinner and stay the night you will both be using each other talk over the phone this way we don't keep hurting........these are games and games just keep hurting good luck my friend...luv kara
2006-12-06 09:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously still likes you maybe shes going to ask you back out. Do you want to get back with her do you want to sort things out with her, if so go for it
2006-12-06 09:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how the break up/seperation has been and if u two are on good terms with each other or not. I say tht if your breakup/seperation has been on good terms and your still talkin respectfully and peacefully, then what could it hurt!!
2006-12-06 09:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by Dwayne M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remind her that she's an EX and tell her you already have plans with another single hot chick ;)
She's playing with you - girls (we are evil sometimes!) do this all the time. She's luring you over with innuendo's of meatloaf and sex - don't do it!
2006-12-06 09:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should go if you still like your ex wife but if you don't like her then don't go she just wants you back
2006-12-06 09:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by Casey W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever your heart says if you still care go and if you don't care go just listen to her you might get back together or you might just have a nice dinner out just go it can't hurt
2006-12-06 09:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by Star S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋