I am a 19 yo female who has been seeing a 39 yo male on and off for a month now. He is always very sweet and respectful and we enjoy eachother's company but I am not exactly sure about what his intentions are.
We met a year ago at the gym and started working out a few times together before he moved to a different town. I then got into contact with him beginning of the summer about an internship position he had mentioned and we worked together over the summer. I was attracted to him physically and it turns out he felt the same way about me (he would tell me I looked beautiful or sexy). Then I found out that he is married and has a child so then I decided to drop it. I was then out of the country for a month before returning for school and did not contact him after that. Then in the beginning of November I got an email from him and we have been on a few dates since then. He gave me my first kiss and has expressed that he does not want me seeing other people. Seems sincere. Advice?
2006-12-06 09:37:06 · 7 answers · asked by ting018725 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't make yourself vulnerable. A man who isn't true to his own flesh and blood, his kid, and his wife of many years - how can you trust such a guy to be sincere in what he says to you? Laws of Probability put it down to a very slender chance that he's the one for you. But you know, I really feel bad for you. You've already answered your question by asking it.
2006-12-06 09:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by Maverick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it does not sound sincere at all!!!! He is a married man with a child. Stay away from men like that because he is probably not being truthful to you. Even though you think he is. You are so young I'm sure you can find someone your own age.
2006-12-06 09:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by brooke992002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not sincere at all you are the other woman and how is he going to tell you not to see other people when he is MARRIED. and he is twenty years older then you, which isnt even the big problem, he is MARRIED. o yea and statistics say that the majority of married men wit women on the side always stay wit who they are married 2. and even if he leaves her for you do u really want to be that women to break up his family and think about the kid
2006-12-06 09:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sami M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a wife and kids at home, I'd say leave him be. How would you like it if you were married and your husband/father of your child was going out on dates with another woman? He obviously can't be trusted, if he's cheating on his wife, he'd cheat on you, too. It's best to leave these type of men alone. I would drop communication with him immediately and find someone less suspicious to date. Good luck.
2006-12-06 09:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think he is a little old hor you? And maybe all he wants from you is sex. I mean he's almost 40, married, has children. Drop it. I f he lied to you in the first place, why would you still want him. He may just break you're heart again... Think bout it.
2006-12-06 09:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by malinla93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SINCERE? WHAT? the guy is M-A-R-R-I-E-D! And you are his underage "thing on the side". He has a kid.. he will never leave her for you. Dump him and enjoy meeting someone your own age who can give you a good life. Don't waste another minute with him.
2006-12-06 09:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have seen him more!
2006-12-06 09:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋