I've realised i actually really like this guy, but he's got a gf already! He made an interesting comment tonight and we flirty loads, what do I do? Just stick to friends?
2006-12-06 09:37:05 · 21 answers · asked by Velma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all your comments so far, think I know deep down to just stick to friends that's way I put it. Nice to see a lot of moral people out there too :o) Will choose best answer as soon as I can.
2006-12-06 09:47:07 · update #1
You already know what the right thing to do is.
Although it can be confusing when you feela sexual tension and flirtation and you feel it's reciprocated (which it may well be).
I'm not going to encourage you to make a move but......if it's bigger than just harmless banter, it WILL happen.
And if it does, you both sound decent enough to make sure there is no third-party to hurt.
Good luck whatever you decide
2006-12-06 09:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Chanelle B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stay friends. Never do to anyone else what you wouldn't want done to you. Imagine how you would feel if he w a s your boyfriend and some girl is having the same thoughts as you. Leave well alone and find another boyfriend, one that you could trust.
2006-12-06 09:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its up to you...ultimately its his deal if he has a girlfriend...if you think you can handle the situation go ahead...i know people are going to spew moralistic stuff up but its hard to be that detatched when you really like someone...i would suggest having a good think about what you think you can handle because thats what its going to boil down to...how jealous you feel...how bored you are when he cant be there...or how fantastic he makes you feel even for 10 minutes...i wouldnt presume to judge anyone...people have all kinds of reasons for doing whatever they do...be happy and think about your own emotions...doesnt really matter what anyone else thinks...;0)
2006-12-06 10:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. If you were his girlfriend already, how would you feel if some other girl made a move on him? If he's really interested, wait for him to finish with her first.
2006-12-06 09:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by Siany babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off - do you really want to be a boyfriend stealer!! If he tries anything then tell him you like him but will not get involved with him unless he breaks it off with his girlfriend first! You don't want to be dating someone who is cheating on their girlfriend - imagine how you would feel if it was you in his girlfriends position. Furthermore, you can not be certain of his purpose - how do know if he is not just after a quick fling - you don't really want to be his little bit on the side!!
2006-12-06 09:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just put yourself in the other girl's shoes. I'm sure you wouldn't like it if your boyfriend messed around. And of course don't forget the old and very true saying - if he'll do it to her, he'll do it to you.
And more importantly I'm sure you're a better person than to muck around in someone else's relationship.
Find someone available who doesn't flirt with other people!
:-)
2006-12-06 09:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda Kate 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stick to friends, it's tough but put your self in her shoes. Try and keep your distance as well cause it will just make it harder for you seeing him and fliting with him all the time.
2006-12-06 12:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by Yaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah don't do anything with a guy that's attached.It'll hurt you and long term it'll make him resent you for getting involved in his relationship.
2006-12-06 21:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go and move on! There are plenty of men out there who would love to go out with you!
2006-12-06 10:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dont wory love , i am , i think i m better than ur bf.email me plz u take care
2006-12-07 00:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by boby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋