isn't it ovious i'm lonly,haven't had my first kiss yet and my spelling sucks. i don't get it i always thought i had a great body and i treat guys better than how my friends do so why am i single!?!?
2006-12-06 09:36:35 · 26 answers · asked by Word up. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't try so hard. You just need to let it come naturally. You'll meet the right guy when the time is right.
Good Luck
2006-12-06 09:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by jennytkd13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the boys in your school are just dumb. Don't worry about getting a boyfriend. It will come as soon as you know it. If you treat boys nicely they will eventually do the same. Don't be afraid to be flirty, and always watch your body language. When you talk to boys don't cross your arms and stuff, or lean away from them, lean into them and look them in the eyes like you want to hear evrything they r saying. It may seem like you have'nt got any guy friends or boyfriend or what, but you will. You sound like a pretty nice girl, you're bound to get a great guy. (I no this from personal experience)So don't worry now, the time may even come tommorow. If your friends have any guy friends, start hanging out with them and her and meet their guy friends and soo on. Than you will have so many guy friends you won't be able to count them all.
2006-12-06 17:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by puffalump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably they are just too shy to ask you out especially when a girl is really beautiful, it's hard for some guys to make the move. That happens to me, I'm a guy and whenever I'm close to her, I start acting differently. Maybe you want to make the move first, some guys like it when the girl fights for him.
Also don't rush it, wait for the right guy.
2006-12-06 17:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do yo have to consider being "single" as being unpopular. Okay...granted your spelling sucks. in fact...its atrocious. Maybe it's your personality? Perhaps hygiene? I mean who knows? You're asking people here to speculate on something that we know nothing about. I know nothing about you and it's left me guessing at why you're "not liked".
However do not lower your standards by any means just to get a guy. Thats the road to trouble. In fact, maybe its because you have good moral character and won't spread your legs like a lot of females do. lets face it...they're as young as 14 and they're admitting they're sexually active. Children who haven't a clue as to what they're getting into and refer to it as "love". Ha!...clueless.
So...I'm not really sure and I couldn't even begin to speculate. But believe me it'll come to you. Don't be in a rush. You seem smart enough (expect for that spelling baby) to know what you have to do and what not to. You'll make out just fine. I have faith. Good luck.
2006-12-06 17:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe guys are used to being treated a certain way and the thought of being treated differently makes them feel different.
2006-12-06 17:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Traveler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more confident in yourself - if you're a hottie, the guys will come around. If you seem down on yourself, guys might think that you will brng them down and not be fun to be around. Just try to enjoy your friends and have a smile on your face as much as possible.
2006-12-06 17:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by Nemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they probably think uv got a boifren already,coz you're 2 attractive to b single,thats probably what they think ... and if u really want a boifren,maybe u should ask a guy out,see what happens or just wait for them to come to you, patience is a virtue ... , timing is evrything, it'll happen when the time is right.
2006-12-06 17:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by MickeyW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you are still too young, not all of the good looking girls have boyfriends at a young age. Usually the guys go for the girls they think they can get the farthest with.
2006-12-06 17:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not attractive as you think.
Not to sound rude but a lot of people have very high unrealistic opinion of their own abilities and attributes
2006-12-06 17:41:45 · answer #9 · answered by Existentialist_Guru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the answer to that - I have the same problem myself.
I mean, I've had my first kiss, but it didn't happen until I was 22.
2006-12-06 17:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by teel2624 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋