Ok... my girlfriend decided to break up with me, and i was really hurt, so I said we couldnt even be friends anymore! She got really upset! She says that she was so sad without me, and hated herself for dumping me, and that she realized how much i mean to her! Now, she wants to get back to dating! Do you think we would break up again if I decided to get back with her? Please help, i could really use some advice!
~Thanks~
2006-12-06 09:36:09 · 5 answers · asked by Justbeingme 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before you get back to dating you really need to have a talk with her. Talk about how you feel, how she feels and both of your expectations you have about having another relationship.
If you cant figure out a happy medium between the both of you then it would be wise if you didnt get into a relationship.
If you still love this woman why dont you give both yourselves time, give it a couple of months and see how your both feeling then, dont just jump back into something asap, theres a reason why you broke up in the first place.
2006-12-06 09:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the same situation and stuff just isn't the same now. we got back together over the weekend and it feels right but that's only because we had been together for a year. don't do it just because it feels comfortable. do what you think you should do. she might be hurting now, but remember she hurt you first!
2006-12-06 17:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way...why did it take losing you for her to realize she wanted to be with you? Having you back will make her forget again.
2006-12-06 17:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mz Biotch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completly agree with Mz. Biotch. Every word.
2006-12-06 17:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. she broke up with you. i would not go back
2006-12-06 17:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋