Stalker lover??

Question

This dude is extra nice and almost so nice he's quite cheesy. But he stalks me or something---LITERALLY. He walks me to my classes AND waits for me after my classes even though he knows he'll probably be late for his next class because most of the time his classes are on the opposite side of school(and trust me, this school is HUGE, middleschool AND highschool together, I get tired just walking to the entrance!).

Its pretty OBVIOUS he likes me, but he's killing my opportunity of meeting other guys since he's almost ALWAYS with me, and if he isn't with me, he's FINDING me, I had to hide behind my friend and duck under a lockerbay since he was looking for me!

How do I tell him to stop following me without being too mean? He's a ...sweet guy sort of..but I'm not interested in dating and I don't want him to ALWAYS tag along when I'm with my other guy friends and girl posse. I don't need him to act like my boyfriend when he's not! NO! I will not curse at him and tell him to f_ck off

goodness grace!
he even sits with me in EVERY class we have together. grr!
YEAH! He even follows me around!! Its like stalking.. Its been at least 2 months or something!!

I don't let him follow on. he keeps talking and I'm trying to take notes in class and do my work and stuff, when he talks too much I just ignore him and sort-of act mean. I'm too nice for my own good and I can't tell him to shut up, I'm just TOO polite. He's too nice, I might break his heart. I need serious help.

Answer 1

He likes you that true, so he will understand if you tell him that you don't need him to walk you class and whatnot. He should be very understanding. I would be like "I don't need you to walk me to class" and then he will say "but i want to" and you could respond by saying "Nothing bad is going to happen to me, this is school" or something along those lines. I would just try asking him

Answer 2

Seems like this guy is not taking the hint and probably won't until you let him know. Let him down gently or he will take it bad and maybe stalk you more.Eek!. He is just probably trying to be sweet and show you he cares but you are entitled to have your own personal space just as much as he does. Let him know that it isn't nice being followed everywhere and that it's unfair of him to restrict your activities. Tell him as soon as you can so that he won't have the excuse that you are leading him on. Goodluck!

Answer 3

RUN!! RUN very very fast and avoid him at all costs! Get some of your friends to be with you at all times. He's a stalker and is going to follow you around like a little puppy dog. Don't look back on this, if it gets too bad then tell your parents, teachers, or even the police if he follows you home.

Answer 4

Try just telling him, "look ____, you really are sweet and all, but you're just a little too clingy. We can maybe just hang out sometime, but other times, I just want to hang with my friends and other guys." Or something to that effect. Hope that helps.

Answer 5

you also sound like you don't want to hurt his feelings but honey, it's either you or him that's going to end up suffering and right now, it's you. explain that you're just not into him like that. try not to use the generic 'we'll just be friends' line but no matter what you do tell him, essentially, that is what you're telling him. and if you don't do that, well... congrats on the new boyfriend.

Answer 6

Be mean it is the only way he will get the message. As long as you keep him believing there is a chance you will be stuck with him

Answer 7

simply tell him how u feel and try to make him undstand that u r not interested in dating right now

Answer 8

just tell him:
look your really nice and we can be friends but you have to stop following me you are reallty scaring me and if you dont stop I dont think we can even be friends

Answer 9

There comes a time when you must be stern and tell him that you must have your space.

Answer 10

happy holidays