ok, 2 weeks ago i met a girl on my school bus, and i REALLY like her, we get along pretty well, we have a lot in common, we make eachother laugh and we talk bout different topics, and for now we are friends, but i really wanna know if she feels the same way bout me, she knows i like her, and i asked her out to hang out but she says she has stuff to do, should i give her time and let her trust me a little more? i really like her and i dont wanna screw this up, can any one help me? what do i do?
2006-12-06 09:23:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just carry on as normal, talking and laughing and stuff. Pretend like it never happened. Give it a few weeks and ask her again if you still like her. She might have been really nervous and flustered so just said no but now regrets it. That happened to me when I was younger but the guy never asked again and I was kicking myself for ages.
2006-12-06 09:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by sticky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is hard but just be friends with her. If I were you I'd lay off on the whole "I like you" thing. In a couple of weeks/a month if you two are still friends ask if she'll go out with you as gf/bf. Then you might know how she feels.Sorry but there is no easy way to do this. Good luck!
2006-12-06 09:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Renae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should give her more time 2 let her get 2 kno her more n i understand ya have a lot in common n make each other laugh but let her trust a little more she would lik dat but i would say im busy 2 if i juz met a guy n he wants 2 hang out so quickly
2006-12-06 09:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by lachiqita13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases, this is how a girl turns a guy down. The thing is you may like her, but you have to see how she responds to you. Does she seem to have an interest for you? If that's the case then don't give up. Be yourself. But if she doesn't, just be friends with her. You never know what can happen later on!
2006-12-06 09:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should give her time like u said and let her get yo know u more also have fun with her and talk when u think is the right time ask her out to the movies or something as friends but have fun and just hang 4 know
2006-12-06 09:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by lola :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 22:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by janovich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest staying friends with her. Just let her know that you would like to hang out and do something together, and ask her to let you know when ever she is avalible. Don't push her to tell you right away just give her sometime. And if there is ever a party or something going on at your school ask her to go with you.
2006-12-06 09:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a girl but i know what your going through. give her some time to think but not too much time because if you give her to much time then she'll be with someone else i grantee you that. try to talk to her alittle more and try to get to know her more at the same time and see if she is what you really want. and when your ready to ask her to date you then dont be scared to ask her, fear is one thing that gets in every ones way in a relationship. to me the definition for fear is- False, Evidence, Appearing, Real.
2006-12-06 09:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by ghostrider20_20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give her a little bit more time. if yo two just met than she might be feeling that your pressuring her into a relationship. WHO KNOWS! maybe she just got out of a really bad relationship. just give her a little time, maybe a few more months, then ask her out again. if she disses you ask her why she doesn't want to go out.
PS good luck with her!
2006-12-06 09:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some more time and type to ask her out way in advance so if she's a busy person she can schedule you in and this way you can see if she does want to go out with you or not. Good luck!
2006-12-06 09:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋