I have had probably over 35 women in my life.. the only problem is that I have sex only about 40 times... I am pretty bad at s e x is what I am saying but I dont have a problem getting a girl to sleep with me. But after the 5 seconds on the first time she doesnt want to sleep with me any more so I just find another women and go about my life..What should I do I dont know I mean I would like to do the whole relationship thing but how will be able to do that if I cant pleasure my girl and I could just be a player for life but what about falling in love and all that stuff.. what do you think??
2006-12-06 09:20:20 · 6 answers · asked by DevilWithoutCause 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do volunteer actually and I am a very passionate person. I just dont last long like 5 secs
2006-12-06 09:24:28 · update #1
sounds as if you need to "rub one out" before you actually do the deed with your gal. Or be honest and up front about your excitement issue, and let her know that after you are done, you will be ready for a second round, and will have more staying power. Just be honest and open with the gal: If you can't be honest with her, you shouldn't be disrobing with her.
2006-12-06 09:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by captainkirkwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe watch a porn....soft or hardcore and get some ideas. They have something over the counter you can take for premature ejaculation. Check into that also. Go to drugstore.com, they have everything there. When you meet the right chick, she will want to sleep with you, maybe even teach you a couple of things, be patient, you will find the right girl. Get the practice while you can ;o)
2006-12-06 17:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have an friends that are girls that you are comfortable with? Maybe one of them would be willing to help you out. What exactly are you so bad at? I mean do you get nervous or do you not last long? It's hard to answer the question if I don't know all the details. Hang in there!
2006-12-06 17:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by AshleyH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any one who is shallow enough to sleep with 35 women doesn't get it. Try to make yourself into the person girls want to be with for a lifetime commitment, try focusing on others not yourself, do volunteer work, coach kids, learn new skills and quit sleeping round. It will come.
2006-12-06 17:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by it's me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some books on how to pleasure a woman and work on it!
2006-12-06 17:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by John D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you havent met the right girl yet. ;O)
2006-12-06 17:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋