Am I a bad guy?

Question

Im going back to school, working on my bachelor degree. I get A's and B's in all my classes. I'm a nice guy. I go out, drink, and parties. But i also do drug. I drop E on the weekends, smoke weed, and sometime crack. Most peolple would not see this in me. I'm embarrass about it if i told a good girl that this is what i do. I like it tho, this is how i wanna live for now. Am I a bad guy? should i feel like wat im doing is wrong?

Answer 1

As a occasional drug user myself, (and alot in the 70's) i see no problem with social drinking or marijuana, the Ecstacy and crack is different though. You never really know what your getting and it could kill you. I've tried both out of curiosity and I saw no reason to take such a chance, especially crack. That **** has ruined too many people that I would've never thought possible. I'm all for catching a buzz and having a good time, but no reason to put yourself in danger while doing it. That crack will eventually rule your life if you continue.
I do however admire you for furthering your education, but don't risk it by doing drugs that are that potentially dangerous. No this doesn't make you a bad guy....yet.....but I've seen where it goes.
Beware!!! You've been warned.

Answer 2

These sorts of problems do come in phases just be care full not to get hooked it is really easy. When i was younger myself and some friends were doing the same sort of stuff. There were 5 of us in total and we used to party every weekend. After a while Two of the Five started to use during the week on and off. then it grew to daily then they were stealing to afford there habit. one of the two is dead (May he rest in peace) and the other is three years into a 30 year sentence for theft, importing and distributing plus a host of other charges. The other 3 including me had no problem stopping when we outgrew the party and experimentation stage.
All i can tell you is BE CARE FULL all five of us came from good homes and were very very similar but for some reason they got sucked into the scene while we got out. DO NOT let it get out of control. The best thing to do is stop now but just because you are experimenting doesn't make you a bad person just a little naive. At very least Slow Down your usage trust me you don't want to go through or put your family and friends through what we went through.
Good luck and be care full

Answer 3

I don't know if you are a bad guy or not but you are deceived. You have decieved yourself into believing that you have control over these drugs that you are taking. The day will come, probably sooner than later, when these drugs will rob you of everything you have: your money; where you live; your health; your loved ones as well as your friends. You are investing in a bleak and painful future.

And you won't be destroying yourself only. You will sacrifice anything and anyone to score your drugs.

Does this sound like a "bad person" to you? Take a good look. It's where you're headed.

Answer 4

It doesn't sound like you're a bad guy, but your habits are terrible. If you want a good girl, she probaby won't want you because of those habits. If you're embarrassed about telling a girl what you do, you shouldn't be doing it. I don't think you're a bad guy, but what you are doing is wrong. Drugs are bad and you should try to get help before they get the best of your good habits. i.e school and getting your bachelors degree.

Answer 5

Go watch "Trainspotting".

In th end, the E and crack will ruin you. I guess you've never been in a crack-house. One bad batch of E will turn you into a veggie and crack...well I deal with crack-heads at work. It's a sad life.

Scale back to just weed if you can. Good luck.

Answer 6

Dunt ask someone else how you should feel. Everyone sets up different expectances and everyone feels different. In my opinion, if you have a conscience, you would feel bad. And you obviously are feeling bad, becuz u never would've asked this question if you didn't feel anything. You can go on as you like, cuz i culdnt care less, but just think about the people u luv, and how they wuld feel if they found out that u were on drugs. Are drugs like, good?? I've never done it, and I always hear people talking about it and such, and I've always been wondering wut it's like...

Answer 7

Well, to be honest... No "good girl" will put up with that kind of behavior. Are you a bad guy? Not necessarily. You could be the nicest guy in the world...but you're still a druggie, you're still asking for trouble, and you're not going to get a decent, nice, sweet good looking girl because of it...assuming your honest with her.
Now, if you date a nice girl, and lie to her about your habits... then you ARE a bad guy.

Answer 8

Society says drugs are bad. Doesn't really mean you're a bad guy though. If a girl thinks you're a bad person then probably she's not the girl for you. There should be plenty of girls that will like you for who you are.

Answer 9

your asking us to judge you and your probably baptist or something christian and in your heart you can be the one to determine if this is something bad. Just because you think its ok now doesn't mean you won't regret doing this later.

There is only one who can determine if your bad. I do think that your A's and B's and nice guy image and bachelor degree will all change. A's to C's or even F's if you keep up this sH.it.

Your in college ... did you miss the D.A.R.E. program in elementary school??? Come on and be smart.

Answer 10

Man, crack and E with jack up your brain permanently. You may want to live that way for now , and that's fine because that's the only way you're going to get to live if you keep that stuff up. Get some help now.