I love my GF but we have very little in common she gets on my nerves alot but i still love her. What do you think?
2006-12-06 08:11:59 · 15 answers · asked by Myself 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very nice, man! It would be just weird to be exactly the same.
Your current relationship may be a bit shaky, but it can last for years.
Trust me.
2006-12-06 08:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by Luna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think so. You can love someone, but they'll still drive you nuts. Especially if you live with them.
Just try to make sure that their annoying habits don't get in the way too much. Have some time to yourself, of with your friends but without your other half. Make sure family and work life is stress-free: it's easy for stresses in one part of your life to be projected onto minor problems in another part of the way you live.
2006-12-06 16:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone and not like their ways. If you have little in common, maybe you love her as a friend becuase the relationship will not grow if there is no chemistry
2006-12-06 16:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by Peaches22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone gets on your nerves and you don't like them (and it's not your brother or sister LOL), then you're not really in love with them. You're enjoying certain qualities of them, but finding their personality unlikable.
Get a new girlfriend.
2006-12-06 16:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Karen L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds pretty normal.
i have a saying.
if you just want to love someone, be friends, be in a club, meet them for dinner or go skiing with them.
but if you are willing to both love and hate someone, then go ahead and get married. because that is how you feel about your spouse. it is a greater commitment than just loving someone.
2006-12-06 16:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN LOVE HER TO DEATH BUT ARE YOU IN LOVE WITH HER. MAYBE YOUR RELATIONSHIP HAS RUN IT'S COURSE. MAYBE IT'S TIME FOR IT TO BE OVER, YOU MAY HAVE GREW AS MUCH AS YOU COULD WITH HER AND LEARNED ALL THAT YOU COULD FROM HER AND ABOUT YOURSELF IN THAT RELATIONSHIP SO I THINK YOU SHOULD SIT DOWN AN RE EVALUATE YOUR SITUATION WITH HER. YOU KNOW, AND AT THE END OF THE DAY WHAT'S REALLY GONNA MAKE YOU HAPPY? AND IS SHE HAPPY FOR REAL BUT EVEN BEYOND THAT ARE YOU HAPPY? AND AFTER THINKING ABOUT IT. AND FIGURING OUT WHAT IT IS EXACTLY YOU WANT. SIT HER DOWN AND TELL HER WHAT IT IS. GOOD LUCK AND BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF IF YOU CAN'T BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF YOU CAN'T BE HONEST WITH HER.
2006-12-06 16:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very possible, you can love as in care for the persons wellbeing and such and not be in love with or like that person.
2006-12-06 16:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by Richard J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think until you find someone to like & love you are going to be miserable more times than you are happy
2006-12-06 16:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my husband but he's a spoiled brat.
and he says i get on his nerves all the time.
But every night, my dear every night!!
Good stuff.
2006-12-06 16:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but why would you want to resent eachother in the future. dont marry her. you arent doing her a favor nor yourself. You both deserve someone that loves you unconditionally and completely.
2006-12-06 16:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by kellieghr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋