2006-12-06 08:11:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-06 08:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no 'do this and it solves all your problems like instant magic' formula to your question. However, some things to consider are:
(i) what is 'flirt' to you? What is 'talk' to you? What do you mean (in specific action)
(ii) you have to ask urself why you do that.. Some people do it because they need attention from people of the opposite gender, some do it because it's what they base their security / self-esteem on, some do it because it gives them a feeling of power, some people do it for.... whatever reasons. Know yourself better. Then you can probably gradually come to resolve the issue yourself better. :)
(iii) Consider what you would feel and what you would think , objectively, if your boyfriend does the same actions as what you are doing. Would you really , honestly , think it's ok or would you not like it if you are on the receiving end of such a relationship?
2006-12-06 08:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ming Ju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. If it's really only your personality, and you are in love with your bf, then it's okay, as long as there are no hidden intentions behind the flirting. Just don't take it too far. And flirting can be good for a relationship because it makes you feel confident, and can make your bf feel a little bit jealous. And there's nothing wrong with that, as long as you're not doing it on purpose.
2006-12-06 08:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're as in love with your boyfriend as you want us all to believe, then you wouldn't be going around flirting with other guys. I strongly suggest you find a way to control yourself.
2006-12-06 08:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with it, only if u don't actually hook up with them. Because when I get in a relationship I tell my boyfriend if u look at other girls then I can look at other guys but we can't hook up with them, u could know them but that's it. But if u reaaly love with him, then be in love with him only and don't flirt with other guys.
2006-12-06 08:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by Dimonique J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to ask him if might be in on swinging, otherwise you are headed down a dead-end path. You can just "flirt" at a swingers club or you can go as far as you want, whatever you choose, a club or just flirting at wal-mart, you need to have "rules" established, whatever you decide.
2006-12-06 08:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and flirt. flirting 9/10 times is just meaningless, and if gets jealous, then he is too insecure and needs to trust you more.
2006-12-06 09:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play with fire and you're gonna get burned. If he knows, which he probly already does he's going to be a fool to stick around with you! Too many guys are doormats!
2006-12-06 08:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do nothing, flirting is fine as long as he knows he is your main guy
2006-12-06 08:16:23 · answer #9 · answered by Lord Raven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-06 08:16:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really loved him you wouldn't do that and if you still wanna flirt with other guys then you have to tell him that your not ready fr commitment.
2006-12-06 08:14:29 · answer #11 · answered by Kayzizzle 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋