ok i relly like some one . every time i try to talk to him i get so scard. because i don't want to say some thing stupid . i relly want to talk . hes cool and awsome and i just don't get it . and he looks at me and im like saying to myself say some thing . every time . its not that i dont want to talk i. do but i get butterflys . what can i do ?
2006-12-06 07:56:36 · 19 answers · asked by melissa d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i see him every day
2006-12-06 08:01:19 · update #1
Sometimes? Child, it's ALWAYS hard. All I can say is take the dive and talk to him. You may feel scared and weak, but trust me, you must do it, otherwise you will regret it. I know. I made the mistake of not talking. You just need to have courage and do it even though you are afriad. The worst that can happen is that he laughs at you, but then who needs him? A guy who can't appreciate someone's feelings is an *** and doesn't deserve someone like you.
2006-12-06 08:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by Metal Paw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending how old you are, there's times when you just have to say to yourself what the heck and just do it. What's the worst he's going to do call you a loser and laugh at you??? Probably not, because he's just as shy as you. So go for it, and if it fails try again with some other guy, where all not that bad. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-06 16:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by tommy55925 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you want to say beforehand. That happens to me sometimes and I've been in a relationship for over a year. Just run through a couple topics in your mind and then when you see him you will remember at least one of them. Good luck.
2006-12-06 16:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by TheONEJay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably thinking the same thing:) It sounds like he likes you too, since you catch him looking at you. Just say "hi" when you pass him, I promise that won't sound stupid. Then maybe next time he will make the first move.
2006-12-06 15:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by M B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look the guy he might be thinking the same way. all i can say hey just be yourself. But at the same time if he is someone you really want to get to know then you got to go for yours if not the next chick will
2006-12-06 16:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by jersey guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some advice is to just be yourself. I f he truely is into you you'll know bye his actions. Being yourself is always the way to go because you want that person to love you for you & not some fake you otherwise the love won't last.
2006-12-06 16:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by oxmule82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk with other different guys around all the time and than you'll find your way to talk with THAT GUY.
Good Luck!
2006-12-06 16:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can somehow get his e-mail address or his IM name or just simply write him a cute note....
and just remember you are all those things 2 and he will be just as happy to talk to you as you would be to talk to him
2006-12-06 16:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make a move first because sometimes boys don't know what to do you have to help them out. don't think about the butterflys in your stomach.
2006-12-06 15:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by Baby V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it's normal.
You just have to jump over the hurdle and tell him what you really think.
Guys find insecure people unattractive.
No offense, but it's true.
So be yourself.
2006-12-06 15:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by Luna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋