1 of them is my ex. He's funny and nice but the other is my really-close guy friend. the 2 have been friends for six years and my ex told me they have ben having fist-fights in the bathroom. What do i do?
2006-12-06 07:52:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a really sticky situation to be in. I was in a similar one before. To be honest, the only option you have is to not get together with either of them. It is sad to have a friendship dissolve due to a relationship that might not even last forever. It will be difficult to do this, but in the long run it is the better thing to do. It's only fair to both them and you. Good luck!
2006-12-06 07:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by Manny P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell each of them that you don't like fighting. The one that stops fighting first, will be your friend. And get another guy for a boyfriend!
2006-12-06 07:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the victor go the spoils.
Tell them what it will take to "win" you, and then once you've been won, tell the "looser" to back off, you're taken.
If you've already been won by someone, tell them you're not avaliable.
Or you could date them both for a while, but if they're already fighting and not dating you, that could get worse.
Or you could tell them they're only allowed to fight when you can watch, if you like the idea.
2006-12-06 07:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you both like them as friends and there's no need for fighting because nothing will come of it. Just say you don't want to be with either of them. Or just say you like someone else and they will stop slapping each other.
2006-12-06 07:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by fuzzy_fruitcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them do what they do and not get involved. One is ex and another is a guy friend, what can you do?
2006-12-06 07:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by blzwbr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch them both. two guys fighting over you means there are a lot more out that that would treat you better
2006-12-06 07:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose which one u like most. beware that u r gonna split up 2 best friends though. but thats not ur fault
2006-12-06 07:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by clare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them theres enough of you to go around. Then put those skills you learned in kindergarden to use and share!!!
2006-12-06 08:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by Master Kain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you like them both as friends.. unless u like one of them more.. take them both in a room and talk to them together and ask them whats really going on....
2006-12-06 07:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah right ..probably fighting to get the other one to take you off his hands...
2006-12-06 07:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋