My best friend is getting married in less than two weeks. The last time I saw her was in late August to meet her fiance. I was invited to the wedding and so I'm planning on going. The thing is I have called her at least five times in the past couple of months and she has not answered. I left messages and have received nothing in return. I even called on her birthday and got no answer. I didn't think anything of it the first few times I called, "maybe I caught her at a bad time." But as the wedding inches closer she still has not returned any of the calls and I'm extremely worried. I don't know where the wedding is being held, I know the city, just not the church.
I'm planning on calling her mother when I get home from work today to verify everything.
My question is: I know that weddings can be a stressful, but is normal to just completely ignore one of your oldest friends?
2006-12-06 07:50:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I'm 100% positive that I did not do anything to piss her off. So that can't be the reason she isn't answering me.
2006-12-06 07:52:06 · update #1
***UPDATE***
I found out, from her brother, that the wedding has been called off. She is probably still dealing with it and just hasn't called me yet. Thanks for your input, although some of it sucked! I was invited to the wedding, it was small so there were not invites. It was all word of mouth. She kinda just got behind on the cancellation part.
2006-12-07 02:09:47 · update #2
If you received an invitation, all of the information will be there. If you have not, than that may be why she isn't returning your phone calls. I know you said you're 100% sure you didn't do anything to piss her off, but keep in mind that's your perception and may not be hers. However, weddings can be extremely stressful and given that it is the last 2 weeks, she may be run off her feet right now, especially if no one is really helping her out.
The other possibility is, what if the engagement has been broken off and the wedding isn't happening. She may be embarrased and have only told family about the situation. You will probably get some answers when you phone her mom but it may not be the answers you're looking for. Hope you get the situation solved.
2006-12-06 08:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by Patricia D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you get an invitation?? If you received an invitation then you should know where the ceremony and reception are at. Now if you didn't get an invitation, maybe that is why she is not returning your calls. Maybe your not really invited, like you thought you were. I am not really sure either way, I am just saying you should know where the wedding is at if you got an invitation.
And yes planning a wedding is stressful, but not to stressful to cut people out of your life, I think your friend has issues.
2006-12-06 07:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this isn't something you want to hear but people move on with their lives. It took me a while to accept it too. My best friend lives not even 20 mins away from me. She has a whole new crowd of friends and I can't remember the last birthday we spent together. I really hope it's just the stress that is holding her back from calling you. Just con't to try. She'll appreciate it.
2006-12-06 08:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you receive an invitation to the wedding? It should have stated where the church is.
I hate to break it to you, but if you haven't gotten an invitation, then you aren't invited to the wedding and she's ignoring you.
But if you have gotten an invitation, she's probably just busy.
2006-12-06 07:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u the only she hasnt answered? my friends do that and it is usally cause they have soo much going on and dont have a lot of time for other things..i think it is wrong that she has not answered u in more than 4 months. i would go over to her place or call her parents to see if they know where she is.good luck
2006-12-06 07:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by cute_shorty_878 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look i feel he is making an attempt to restrict you from what youre announcing hes appearing humorous simply discover a brand new pal considering the fact that he isnt a pal anymore hes moved directly to new matters and hes appearing very twofaced so simply dont name him anymore till he calls you.
2016-09-03 11:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by stults 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it so personally. She is probably not ignoring you, just overwhelmed and stressed out. Call her mom and get the information. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-06 07:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say don't call her anymore if she is true friend then she will call. I know that this is pain I just went through something similar myself with a friend of mine. but tell u one thing I stopped calling her eventually she called me
2006-12-06 08:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by lightskinnedwonder1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No invitation means you're not invited. I think you are being ignored.
2006-12-06 08:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋