I met this guy about 8 months ago, and we becamed really good friends, like inseparable! We hang out all the time, do everything together, and it can be anything an in watching tv together, going out to clubs, bars, museums, beach. He becames so close to me, that I have started to have feelings for him. For example, I get jeaolus when I know he is talking to an ex, or if he hangs out with other girls, etc. I dont what to do? is it wrong for me to tell him how I feel, or should I just leave it like that? I dont want to ruin our friendship that we have. because that is one of the reasons why i like him!
2006-12-06 07:48:14 · 6 answers · asked by marcela r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it looks like you have been thinking this over, and at this point your scared to admit you like him (at least to him) but, sooner or later you have to tell him how you feel. if you take your time worrying about how you expressing your feeling could ruin your friendship, you might be, very surprised and angry when he goes out with another girl, because you didnt tell him soon enough. you have to tell him, like is full of opportunities, dont let go of this one. who knows? maybe your friend has the same feelings towards you. you just might start a great relationship, this time as boyfriend/girlfriend. keep your head high, and go for it!
GOOD LUCK!!!! :]
2006-12-06 07:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is so easy to fall in love with a friend. You usually fall in love with a boyfriend after dating a while and getting to know eachother really well right? Well you are doing things with this guy that you would do with a boyfriend, and you have gotten to know him really well, its no shock that you are falling for him.
About telling him, I can say that relationships that start off as friendships have a much better chance of lasting then one where you dont really know eachother. If you think that you guys could have a really good relationship, then go for it. You only live once, and I am sure you do not want to live the rest of your life wondering what could have been if you just opened your mouth.
Good luck.
2006-12-06 15:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more common then you think. Many times friends develop feelings for each other. You have to tell him how you feel. If he feels the same way that will be great. But, if the relationship doesn't work you'll never be as close as you are now...once you've crossed that line you can never go back..Make sure its worth it.
2006-12-06 15:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes its better to leave it alone if you think that its going to ruin your relationship. Other times its way better to let your thoughts out. He could possibly feel the same exact way and just is too afraid to tell you aswell. If i were you, i'd try to get up the courage to just tell him.
2006-12-06 15:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by becoming part of your past 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really is that close of a friend, even if he doesn't return the feelings, he won't hurt you.
Just tell him and go with the flow.
He'll probaly understand.
And hey, if it all goes well, you'll have yourself a boyfriend!
2006-12-06 15:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im inthe same boat you are, but i began to love her, and am trying to date her , than just be her best friend. its a hard decsion cuz like you i dont want to loose our friendship. tell him how you began to feel, i bet he just might feel the same way.
2006-12-06 15:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by ampedaboutit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋