So, I have had an extreme amount of feelings for a friend of mine for about 6 years. I was dating his best friend for that amount of time and was scared to get out of the relationship for security issues. He was abusive to me mentally and pushed me around when he was drunk. Also, he used to drink heavily and hurt a lot of people around him.
Now, I have broke things off completely with him. He wants me back and cries to me. I will not take him back. I went down to visit the friend i talked about earlier, this weekend. We had been drinking a lot and I asked him if he wanted me to sleep in his bed or on the couch and he said he couldnt do that to his friend (my ex). His roommate told me that this kid does have feelings for me and that it is obvious there is a lot of tension between us. Should I just forget about this whole thing because he said he couldnt do that to my ex or what?!
2006-12-06 07:30:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, you got yourself a knight in shining armour all. give it a try and see what happens. for get a bout the loser bf because he's bad news. have some self respect and love the good guy.
you dont have to sleep with everyone to get love. there are still some guys that are hapless romantic. like your 2nd man. he's good company
good luck!
2006-12-06 07:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by mapanakodamulag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a simular situation while I persued she held back in the end none of us have talked they were together for nine years and I admire her. I am taking a time out, we kissed then she decided to not see each other cause he was pissed. Anyway love works in strange ways.
2006-12-06 07:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by animalmother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would explain my feelings and say that I don't ever want to get back with your ex. He may just need time since it seems you all just broke up. I would still try to get with him just after some time though.
2006-12-06 07:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by Richard B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if thats not what he wants to do to his friend then you probably won't end up doing anything together. you have to both really want to in order for it to work. if he wanted to he would've done it already. so, just forget about it until he is ready and maybe by then you'll already have someone else or not be interested in him anymore.
2006-12-06 07:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by my nickname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, dont give up just give it time. your feelings will win over this friendship thing because evetually that other guy will get over you and it sounds like this has been going on for a while. jt a ltitle while longer shouldnt hurt. good luck!
2006-12-06 07:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by Beauty in the Breakdown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are about a million other single guys out there. Maybe try picking one who your ex doesn't know since he is a bully and all.
2006-12-06 07:34:11 · answer #6 · answered by MsFancy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away from both of them for a while,as in -no contact at all.just be with yourself,alone,then after a while do some deep thinking,listen to your heart,it will tell you what your next step will be,follow what it says,cos the heart never lies.....
2006-12-06 07:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by dra shelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 21:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It will only cause confusion and tension. This is a no win situation.
2006-12-06 07:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by ladilove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will remain faithful to his friend and you shoudln't try and get between them. Move on. There is someone better for you somewhere.
2006-12-06 07:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋