i am 16, asian and brown, i have never in a long time been to a mixed school, but it is unusual for guys to stare as much as they are, at me? do the guys stare because they think im different or because they like me? if they do like me, why dont they speak to me, do guys feel intimidated cause im coloured cause im the only ethnic girl in my school or cause im not girlfirend material? i really like this guy but i dont know how to attract my first boyfriend?help
2006-12-06 07:24:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because they can
2006-12-06 07:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by sukis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Blokes ur age tend to be very shy so try making the first move. Start a conversation with him or find something u have in common. As for why they stare cud be for ne number of reasons so cant really help wi that bit. gd luck
2006-12-06 07:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by Perfect-Angel84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of it like this, guys always like to look at something different. But the key is to look for a guy who wants you for you. Not just something to do because it is different or new. So if you truly like this guy, just approach him and be you. Never let yourself be intimidated or alter yourself because your different. The guy will respect you in the end and you will too.
2006-12-06 07:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by ladilove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys are probably all thinking how hot you are and how much they would like to go with you but may not be sure you will understand them. Go talk to a few, when they work out you are normal your problems will be over.
2006-12-06 07:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like the way you look. Guys like ur cuteness - especially white boys. For some reason white boys and Asian girls click really good... I say he is shy - just ask him - whats up.. ask him, if he want to walk you up the street cuz u scared
2006-12-06 07:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by J S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they stare at you ,as you are now a young woman.
maturing and beautiful.they look at you as they see you as attractive. to attract a guy just make eye contact and let him chase you and ask you out.just be you and you will be fine
in this day and era your ,creed or colour dosent matter at all.
so if you like someone theres no need to make bold statements,just eye contact.
if he smiles smile back and so on.
just be yourself at all times and be choosy,you obviously are admired.good luck
2006-12-06 07:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about all those questions, guys will continue to stare stupid one's star to long smart one look long enough to get caught just to see if you don't mind it.
As far as the guy you like, just talk to him about whatever and see how the conversation goes.
2006-12-06 07:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They stare at you purely because you are a girl. They wont speak to you because you are a girl. Best thing you can do is talk.
2006-12-06 07:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by John S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought guy's stare because they like the look of what they are staring at........but that's just me lol.
2006-12-06 07:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by Puma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if your pretty then there is no doubt why they are staring. its cause they can't stop thinking about u.
2006-12-06 07:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by 49er fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him Hi they are staring at your beauty
2006-12-06 07:26:47 · answer #11 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋